100 Articles: What I learned About Relationships And Marriage Writing For The Good Men Project

The good the bad and the ugly. Steven Lake explores two years of thinking and writing about relationships – often his own.

Dispelling the Myth of the Magic Writer

Dan Szczesny answers the question “Where do you get your ideas?” with insight and humor—and a helpful look into the heart of a writer’s life.

Glory Days: The Wacky Sensibilities of Kobe Bryant

Kobe Bryant is in the twilight of his career. Like all of us, the older he gets, the better he was.

A Poet on the Writing Process

Spoon Jackson writes, “I believe art is waiting to come out when allowed the room to flow up.”

Dear Beloved Ryan Gosling

Jerry Jay Hewitt writes a letter to his muse: the captivating Ryan Gosling.

15 Great Foods For Tailgating and Watching Sports

Games go better with good food.

ADD and the Significant Other

Divorce rates for those with ADD are nearly double that of the general population. Here are some tips to keep you from being another statistic.

The Proper Way To Share Your Junk

“You keep it classy, San Diego.” Ron Burgundy, Anchorman

It’s All Good

Whatever happens, no matter how remarkable, ordinary, or annoying, continue doing what you should be doing.

The Poet as Archetype

The difference between being a male poet and being a gay man is that it has become increasingly acceptable to come out as gay.

Everybody Talks

Hey baby won’t you look my way I can be your new addiction Neon Trees   I’m 46.  Does liking Neon Trees make me an aging hipster or just a dude who likes good music?  Now that I think about it I also like Silversun Pickups which probably means I might possibly be a bit […]

Dream Lover: Be the One They’ll Never Forget

Paul Leroux had a dream lover —mesmerizing, magnetic and memorable — for three years. And he’s kind enough to share the secrets that made that relationship work.

Chevy’s is finger lickin good

Swear to God.  True fuckin’ story.   Monday night I was in Baltimore with Drama Queen.  We were chillin’ with The Muse when she offered to take us to dinner.  I’ve been craving good Mexican food, but we couldn’t find any so we opted for Chevy’s.  Chevy’s is mediocre Mexican food.  Mediocre food is better […]

Chillin in the District

It’s how I’m rollin, yo! My alarm rang at 4:45 AM on Tuesday morning.  I had a flight to catch at 6:45 AM and since I still had two days to go until my doctor cleared me to drive, my neighbor was taking me at 5:20 AM. I got up, turned on the shower, took […]

The Muse

Inspiration is cool. I learned a few things in 2010.  One of those things is that when I write about girls I’ve dated, am dating or even flirting with, people will either love it or hate it.  There seems to be no middle ground. I’m either The Woomaster or I’m the dude with the shitty […]