“Repeat this: ‘It’s no big deal if she doesn’t like me. I am a good man and will find someone else.’”

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This is a comment by Jon D on the post “Can a ‘Good Guy’ Ever Beat the ‘Bad Boy’?”

Why Don’t Women Like Nice Guys?

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A self-proclaimed “nice guy” wonders why women seem to get bored of drama-free love and start looking for trouble.

The Sensitive But Angry Man

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Frederick Marx has identified a type of man he’s been seeing around a lot.

Nice Guys Part Four: Ozy Forgets Post Titles And Noah Can’t Count

Warning: this is really long. This is what happens when you have multiple 200+ comment threads that crystallize all kinds of awesome new ideas for me. The majority of Nice Guys™ (once again, used gender-inclusively) are suffering from a common delusion: that the dating world is even remotely logical. Unfortunately, this is not true. I’m [...]

Nice Guys Part Two: Defining the Nice Guy(tm)

I think one of the biggest problems with talking about Nice Guys™ (I’m using the term gender-inclusively) is that there are several different kinds of people who fall under the Nice Guy™ umbrella. Admittedly, some forms of Nice Guy™ will evolve into other forms of Nice Guy™, much like Pokemon, but if you don’t know [...]

Nice Guys Part One: I Was A Nice Girl

My name is Ozy, and I was a Nice Girl ™. I had tangled, unbrushed hair that fell limply to my shoulders; my skin was a pizza crust of acne; my glasses were unflattering; I wore stained and torn clothes. I slouched and spoke in monosyllables. I’d spent the last fourteen years reading instead of [...]