Her Feet of Clay

beauty worship, objectification, psychology of beauty, dating, sex

“We all judge people on their looks. Some of us are just more honest about it.” When Andy Bodle puts a woman on a pedestal for her beauty, the results are predictable.

Hearts on Fire


Pushing the Limits Between Love and Work

I Had an Affair with a Married Man (and I Don’t Regret It)


Sandra Cliff thought of their affair as “big love and big lies,” but her old lover seems to make his open marriage work—only with more orgasms.

Ignore the Movies: ‘Romantic’ Gestures Are Creepy


Contrary to what the movies say, women don’t want romance—at least not straight away.

Is it Okay to Ask Out My Coworker?

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A man asks Eli and Josie for help with his feelings toward a coworker… who is also a friend… and a friend of his ex. Oh my.

The Girl I’m In Love With Is Taken

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A guy wonders if he should break it up or suck it up.