Why Dating App ‘Bumble’ Is Making Men More Confident

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‘Bumble’ may aim to give power to women, but Tillie Adelson sees it as a boon for men.

She’s Had THIRTEEN Lovers! Should I Even Date Her?

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Is 13 lovers too many? Not enough? Should you even date her? Intimacy Expert Allana Pratt reminds us that our Perceptions create our Reality…

The 6 Ugly Truths of Online Dating


There are pitfalls and potholes on the way to finding love. Here’s how to navigate the bumpy terrain of online dating.

Why Does She See Me As a FRIEND Not a LOVER?


Nothing’s worse than being put in the ‘friend zone’, when you really thought she was into you. Allana Pratt Intimacy Expert removes the block to reading women …

5 Reasons Why Some Men Avoid Marriage


She wasn’t interested in a fairy tale romance and thinks these are the reasons why some guys don’t want to get married. — At university, I was the only girl in my class. We studied business and took majors in finance and portfolio management. Those years had a huge impact on my personality. When I […]

Four Types of Relationships We Experience


There are different types of relationships that affect how we love and live life.  — There are going to be plenty of relationships in your life, no matter the seriousness of them. Recently, I spotted an article about divorced men, which in turn made me look at my boyfriend—who is also divorced. He is one […]

10 Qualities That Can Make Guys More Attractive


There are qualities guys have or can learn that make us irresistible.  — I was recently reading Iron John, A Book About Men by Robert Bly, which uses a Brothers Grimm tale to talk about stages of masculine development. The book talks about various stages of being a complete man as they relate to mythological […]

3 Reasons Why an Affair Isn’t the Answer

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“I love her, should I wait? should I move on?”… Intimacy Expert Allana Pratt, with some answers.

It’s Not Love That Matters the Most


They met by accident and fell in love before meeting. Their relationship flourished when she came to this revelation.  — We met by accident.  “I am sorry for the delayed response, give me a call back at…” His voice was smooth and deep, like rich chocolate. I saved the message.  It took me a few months to return his call. I told him that he had left a message on my machine, then went on to explain that he had dialed the wrong number. I also told him […]

8 Reasons You Should Reconsider Online Dating


This man says you can find love through online dating if you know what to do.

5 Reasons Why Online Dating Has Ruined Finding Love


This man says that while online dating has led to opportunities, it’s ruined how we find lasting love. — Finding love these days is harder than ever. With all the technology and access to people via online dating sites, you would think it would be the opposite.  It created this false sense of expectations and […]

Three Minutes to a More Loving Relationship


When was the last time you danced with your significant other? This week? This year? The last wedding you attended?

3 Reasons to Break Up With Her

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How would you feel if your girlfriend deleted all photos of you two lovebirds on FB? Intimacy Expert Allana Pratt goes ‘mama bear’…

5 Rules to Succeed at Online Dating


You can find love and amazing experiences through online dating with a few simple adjustments.   — Last week, I bumped into a friend Nick on the subway. Nick is single. At 40, he is an executive at a not-for-profit that works on educational reform. Nick’s frustration was palpable. And, it broke my heart. Highly intelligent […]

3 Things NOT To Do When a Woman Cries

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How a man handles a crying woman can make or break a relationship. Intimacy Expert Allana Pratt gets vulnerable…

The Inside Truth About Dating an Independent Woman


She may appear to have no room in her life for a relationship with you, but there’s more to her than meets the eye.  — Have you ever dated a fiercely independent woman? Did you write her off, assuming she didn’t have room in her busy life for you? I can’t speak for all women, but […]