She’s Never “Just” an Ex so Stop Calling Her That


I used to refer to my ex-wife as just “my ex”, until I had a realization. She is the same person I fell in love with at one time, and although the definition of my love for her has changed – significantly I might add – it doesn’t change the fact that she is still mostly that same person.

Distracting Myself by Arguing With People On the Internet (Was I a Troll?)

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Uzi Peretz admits that change is one of the most difficult things for him to do, and to accept.

Here’s Why You Should Know About The Romantic History of Your Current Partner in Excruciating Detail

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Kristine Rose thinks you should tell all your dirty secrets to your new partner.

Why Women Don’t Need Husbands, By a Husband

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Tom Burns is happily married to a woman, but he thinks Suzanne Venker’s assertion that women need husbands is complete BS.

White Men Appear Immune to Stop and Frisk, Not Mass Murders


Despite mass murders committed by suburban white men, it seems to be only inner-city black and brown youth that are the victims of Stop and Frisk.

The International Criminal Court: Racism or Realism?

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James Plunkett Weighs in on the African Union’s potential secession from the ICC.

Don’t Tolerate Me

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Bob Munoz wants us to change the language so that we are not just tolerating other groups of people. We are accepting them wholeheartedly.

Veterans, the Shutdown, and Consequences of Operating in a Rigged System

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After meeting a young combat veteran with a brain injury, it occurs to Alex Steed that in this rigged system, there are no consequences to politicians for the harm they cause.

George Zimmerman and the Tragedy of Casual Racism

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David Zucker gives his opinion on the George Zimmerman trial, and on the larger problem of casual racism in America.

Comedian Jim Norton: I’m Disgusted By Suggestions Lindy West Should Be Raped


I am very careful about telling people what they should write or how they should express themselves, but I truly hate a lot of the things that have been directed at Lindy.

Call for Op-Eds From New Editor


Christian Coleman, the Good Men Project’s new Op-Ed editor, tells a little about himself and asks for your input.

Tom Matlack Talks to the New York Times About Women, Beautification, and Self-Esteem

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Who are we to judge what someone else decides to do to her own face or body?

The “No Debate” Debate with Clay Matthews and Gillette

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When it comes to football, can the best ever really be decided? Share your opinion in Gillette’s No Debate Contest. Prizes each week, and grand prize is a pair of tickets to Super Bowl XLVII.

Poll: Are You More Likely to Buy Products from Companies that Support Gay Rights?

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Take our poll on how brand activism affects brand loyalty.

Abortions, Men, Women, and being Called Sluts and Murderers

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Abortion, contraception, reproductive rights — these are issues of both men and women. Here are two stories.

Elephant on a Hot Tin Roof

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Andrew Cotto notes the similarities between Tennessee William’s play and his view of the Republican Party.