College, Manhood, and Exams

College Exams and Manhood photo by Ryan McGilchrist

Aaron W. Voyles looks back on the ways male hierarchy was perpetuated in his college years.

“I have promised myself to explore and express being human more this year. “


Comment of the Day: A reader responds to an article about locking oneself into gender roles.

Everybody Wants to Fit In. Everybody Wants to Stand Out.

Everybody Wants to Fit In photo by Steven Depolo

Aaron W. Voyles looks at the social navigation needed to become a man.

About that Drink I Ordered…


Two guys walk into a bar. One of them orders a cosmo…

“Is Physical Beauty Important for Practically Everybody?”


This comment by Valter V on the post Daddy, Am I Pretty

Call for Submissions: What Does it Mean to Be a Teen Guy in the 21st Century?

What Does It Mean to Be a Teen Guy in the 21st Century

Raising Boys Editor, Marie Roker-Jones is calling on guys, 14-17 years old, to talk about what it means to be a teen in the 21st Century.

Why Doesn’t Batman Ever Smile? Part 2


Part two of Rosalind Wiseman’s groundbreaking new book on the world of teenage boys.

Breaking the Emotional Coma Cycle

Jason Hairston, Good Men Project, Breaking the Emotional Coma, Masculinity, Relationships,

Jason Hairston explains how constricted masculinity damages male relationships

The 30-Year-Old Virgins

the thrity year old virgins

JJ Vincent thinks he finally knows why he and his friends did not understand the 30-year-old virgins.

How Young Men Can Deal With The Stresses Of Peer Pressure

peer pressure, bullying, groups, cliques

Dealing with peer pressure can very stressful for many younger men, here are some suggestions on how to manage the stresses and anxieties of dealing with peer pressure.

When Your Guy Friends Do Not Understand Your Mental Health Issues


4 Tips to making living with Mental Health issues easier

Excuse Me for Keeping It Real

Excuse Me for keeping it Real

Colin Berry makes the case for men to drop the surface-level chatter and have real conversations instead.

My Daughter Fell for Spider-Man and Peer Pressure

The identity crisis

At five years old, my daughter is feeling the pressure to fit in. As a dad with marginal power, there is still great responsibility.

Boys Will Be Boys Because We Want Them To Be


Kenny Bodanis cites four parental culprits that reinforce societal stereotypes and keep boys stuck in outdated notions of boyhood

Uniformed Code of Military Injustice

army, military, rape, sexual assault, abuse of power, patriarchal, hierarchy

UCMJ – Unjustly Coddling Military Jerks

Men are Being Sexually Assaulted in the Military, But Nobody is Talking About it

military sexual assault, military, sexual assault, rape

Our Soldiers are being raped…by our Soldiers.