How To Overcome Performance Anxiety

Jordan Gray says that sexual performance anxiety is one of the most common sexual difficulties that arises for men (at some point throughout their lives).

Reflections from a 50 Year Old Nobody

“By societal standards, I may look like a failure, but inside I feel like I’m right where life needs me to be.”   The night before I turned 50, seven year old Jett asked, “Daddy, how do you know when you are enlightened?” I told him that nothing bothers you because the “you” who you […]

5 Ways To Eliminate Performance Anxiety

Jordan Gray says that performance anxiety is the most natural thing in the world. Let go of it with these five steps.

How to Eliminate Performance Anxiety Forever

There is any easy way to eliminate performance anxiety once and for all and experience intimacy beyond what you thought possible.

What Is Objectification?

When a psychologist promoting her new book is interviewed by a Playmate for Playboy radio, she’s challenged to answer the question at the root of porn’s very existence.

A Chronic Cheater

An unfaithful man ends up alone, taking a fearless personal inventory, and vows to change.

The Myth of One-Size-Fits-All Sex

Sexual instruction manuals perpetuate the notion that, despite the apparent diversity of ways to have sex, there’s just one right way for men to be lovers.

Fear of Heights

Each city offers visitors a custom solution for managing high anxiety.

But How Am I Supposed to Be with Her Sober?

The first time Dan Griffin asks a woman out in recovery, the intensity of the experience is overwhelming.

The Psychology of Erectile Dysfunction

For 25 percent of men with ED, medication can be ineffective—since their difficulties are largely psychological. To avoid performance anxiety, men and their partners should reframe their ideas of good sex.