How to Tell the Difference Between a Boundary and a Threat

How to Tell the Difference by Richard Thomas

Sometimes it’s hard to know if someone is drawing a boundary or making a threat. Thomas Fiffer offers a framework to help make the distinction.

That’s What You Get for Being So Adorable

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“Just because you think I’m Elmo doesn’t mean you may tickle me.” –Man Shman

What’s Your Deal Breaker in a Relationship?

couple outside Reichstag

What qualities in men are “deal breakers” for women considering a relationship? Conversely, what are on men’s lists?

The Childfree Life

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I could have been a decent, if reluctant, father, just like my own father was. I’ve made a different choice.