Suck at Dating? You Can Get Better at it if You Try

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Dr. NerdLove understands how intimidating dating can be when you have very little experience, but there are ways you can prepare and feel confident.

Can You Be An Ethical Pickup Artist?

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Yes, meeting women can be hard. But the coerciveness of the nature of pick up artist is all wrong.

Seduction Games: Inside the Mind of a Pickup Artist

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Reseacher Anders Wallace shares about the whats and whys of the Pickup Artist culture.

A Master of the Game Strikes Out in Denmark

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They come from the land of the ice and snow, and they don’t care if you think you’re an alpha male.

Dating 201: The Right Mindset For Success

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So you’ve gotten better at dating, but you can’t seem to meet “the one”… Maybe you’re focusing too much on improving the outward details of your dating, and not enough on the inward ones.

I’m Sorry, But I Love You

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Andy Bodle goes for a gorgeous girl with low self esteem, and finds himself mysteriously outclassed by everyone.

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Understanding Men

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Harris O’Malley insists that our understanding of masculinity today is a bubbling stew of misunderstandings, ignorance and anxieties.

The Gentlemen of Paradise

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Carl Pettit finds the mating rituals of the male of the species, avian and human, comically and tragically similar.

Dating Short Cuts and Magic Bullets

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Doctor NerdLove challenges the myth of quick-fix dating and relationship advice.

Boys in the Friend Zone

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How can we mentor boys in dating and relationship skills?

Understanding Women

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Doctor NerdLove examines the notion that women are inherently so different from men that understanding them requires some sort of guidebook.

The PUA Lifestyle: London Real Meets Art of Charm Podcaster Jordan Harbinger: Video

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A pickup artist on not waiting for what you really want.

The Chase

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Alex Pollack has a history of obsessively pursuing the girls and women he forms crushes on.

Playing Hard to Get

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Casually used phrases like “playing hard to get” reduce women’s choices to a game.

Rapey Pickup Artists: Analysis Of A Field Report

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Clarisse Thorn discusses the darker side of the pickup artist subculture in America.