Exploring the mess we are in around male sexuality. How did we get here and what on earth do we do?
Best Laid Plans: Prom and Porn at Same Venue
May 21, 2012 By 7 Comments
Jamie Reidy comments on a high school prom and a porn convention happening at the same venue.
Porn in Trouble? Save Porn!
May 18, 2012 By 25 Comments
Jamie Reidy comments on an, uh, inspiring article regarding the porn industry.
Why I Love Weird Porn
May 7, 2012 By 9 Comments
Noah Brand lays out the connections between esoteric culture, cognitive surplus, and furry dickgirls.
From Boys to Good Men – Pornography, Fraternities and Feminism
April 22, 2012 By 108 Comments
Josh Bowman wonders if on-campus mentor programs can combat a culture of hyper-sexualized aggressive masculinity, and counter some of the lessons learned from watching porn at young age.
Can We Make This More Complicated?
April 18, 2012 By 32 Comments
Clarisse Thorn talks rape, feminism, BDSM, and what it’s all taught her about the ethics of complexity.
Ladies Bleaching Private Parts… Men, Are You Getting A Bad Rap?
April 13, 2012 By 115 Comments
Joanna Schroeder wonders if men are as much pawns in the beauty industry’s manipulation as women are.
The Everyday Sexiness of Men
March 30, 2012 By 29 Comments
Two romance authors who blog about sex discuss what they find hottest in a man—and it’s not what you’re thinking.
The Road To Smutville
March 27, 2012 By 168 Comments
Long-Haul truck driver Todd McCann breaks the stereotype that all truck drivers are out looking for meaningless sex.
The Worst Job I Ever Had
March 22, 2012 By 1 Comment
Machine malfunctions, endless paper cuts, and flying sheet metal. Even free porn wasn’t worth all this.
“We can’t stop policing sex because somehow, in 2012, it is the most taboo act in America.”
March 18, 2012 By 11 Comments
“Andrea Dworkin and Rick Santorum would be bedfellows, bosom buddies, allies in all but title and label on the question of porn.”
“Theoretically a man could worry that he’s addicted to porn and it turns out he’s really not. Is there room in the diagnostic system for that possibility?”
February 27, 2012 By 7 Comments
If his partner has a problem with his porn use, then that’s not necessarily evidence by itself he’s addicted.
“A song by Northern Pikes ‘She Ain’t Pretty She Just Looks That Way’ is about this very point.”
February 24, 2012 By Leave a Comment
“If a man only considers how a woman looks and how she behaves in the sack…he’s a complete moron.”
Pornography Displayed on TVs at Best Buy?
February 24, 2012 By 2 Comments
Talk about your “Reward Zone!”
Dear John: There Was a Man Watching a Violent Film in Front of My Daughter
February 23, 2012 By 10 Comments
Why won’t my formerly-divorced boyfriend commit to me? How do I stop him from watching lude videos on the train? Why do people think I have to agree with their political ideas?
Vocalyze
“I spent years in confusion that led me to ask awkward even wholly inappropriate questions at the wrong moments…”
This is a comment by James on the post “What Happens When We Don’t Teach Our Boys About Sex”.