Dear John: He Thinks It’s Hot, I Think It’s Not

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A boyfriend’s lovemaking preferences, a roommate who drops into events without invitation, and exercise getting in the way of the marriage.

Her Feet of Clay

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“We all judge people on their looks. Some of us are just more honest about it.” When Andy Bodle puts a woman on a pedestal for her beauty, the results are predictable.

“Use porn to learn where the important parts are and to enjoy watching, but not as a guide to normal bedroom conduct.”

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These are comments by Dr. Adam Sheck, Damien, and FQuattrone on the post “5 Unrealistic Sex Moves Men Learn from Watching Porn”.

NEW STUDY: Environment Plays Bigger Role in Teen Sexual Behavior Than Exposure to Porn

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The new findings are especially important for policy makers and educators concerning the effects of sexually explicit materials on young people’s sexual behaviors.

Men Are “Man Enough” To Handle Porn, Thanks

Alain de Botton may not be able to keep morality and porn in the same brain, but I sure can.   I promised myself I wouldn’t get addicted. I assured myself that I stop any time I wanted to, that I was fully in control of my own actions. I was my own man and damn anyone [...]

Real Men Competing With Porn Stars?

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What happens when men’s ideas about sex and intimacy are formed while watching porn?

“Take a look at the movies with nudity. Take out the parts where they get hot and heavy, would it make the movie less interesting?”

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This comment was by Tom Brechlin on the post “It’s not just porn, kids also see adult material easily through movie trailers, video games, TV channels, etc.”

“I believe connected-by-the-heart intimate sex can be wonderful; but other types of sex can be good, even wonderful, too.”

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This is a comment by W.R.R. on the post “Heart and Balls”.

A Gentlemen’s Theory: Keep Your Favorite Pornstars a Secret

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What men talk about when we talk about porn.

Sleeping Together: The Good Life’s Top Ten in March

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Readers of The Good Life flock to the truth about sleeping together, and what we really want from women.

“It’s not just porn, kids also see adult material easily through movie trailers, video games, TV channels, etc.”

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Do you think the accessibility of sexual images is causing damage to the sexual health of the upcoming generation? Or do you think that it’s just a natural effect of living in a more liberated society? How did sexual images affect YOUR childhood?

Growing Up on Planet Porn

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Were our kids sexually healthier when sexual images were harder to come by?

Corning Community College Cancels Lecture by Gay Porn Star Conner Habib

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Are porn and LGBT rights connected?

Men Spend Less on Porn Than Women Do

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Although the straight female audience is eight times larger, the gay male porn market is enormous in comparison. What porn are women using?

Was Harry Reems a Hero or a Chump?

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The male star of Deep Throat was paid little, used by porn hustlers and then dumped.

NEWSER: Deep Throat’s Harry Reems Dead at 65

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Harry Reems starred in more than 100 adult films, including 1972′s “Deep Throat.”