There’s a Porn Star With Your Name. How Do You Feel About This?

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Do you care? Can you imagine ways in which it might affect your life?

Life Among Men

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A sometimes lush, sometimes gruff poem, William Reichard’s “Life Among Men” engages male lust head-on.

R Kelly, Chris Brown and the Sexual Politics of Never-Never Land

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Aya de Leon examines how children create stories to get themselves through brutal times. And some children never grow up.

Be The Greatest Lover She’s Ever Known

“No, that was totally real, I swear.”

Doctor NerdLove explains that in order to be the best lover possible, you’ll have to unlearn what you think you know about how to be great in bed.

Five Simple Ways For Men to Ruin Relationships

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Take it from an old guy: Trashing a relationship is easy as 1-2-3-4-5.

5 Mistakes Men Make in Relationships

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Jackson Bliss explains why these five relationship mistakes can be lethal.

‘Don Jon’ a Handful for Many Viewers

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Seamus Matlock on the challenges facing Joseph Gordon Levitt’s film.

Can Pornography Be Good for Your Relationship?

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Alyssa Royse offers a quick primer on porn as a sexual aid to spice up your relationship.

Learn From This: Don Jon

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Dr. NerdLove lays out four relationship lessons you can learn from the Joseph Gordon-Levitt film Don Jon.

Dear John: Another Dad Gave My Son ‘The Talk’ Before I Could

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A missed window for the birds and the bees talk, a boyfriend with a potential drinking problem, and a discovery of a son’s porn collection.

An Open Letter to My Son About Sex

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“Your greatest challenge will be to honor the erotic feelings and desires that will come up inside you while also staying fully present and respectful.” Janis Whitlock, in a letter to her son.

How About We End the War on Sex?

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“Men fare little better. We are viewed as sexual junkies who seek to satisfy our relentless physical appetites at the expense of all who cross our paths. We are not to be trusted.”

Insightful Article Further Proves What We Know: Women Like Porn Too

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Amazon’s online book marketplace downplays smut, says Noah Berlatsky.

The Atlantic Reports On The Decline Of Maxim

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Who’s stealing Maxim’s audience? According to the Atlantic, we are.

Dear John: He Thinks It’s Hot, I Think It’s Not

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A boyfriend’s lovemaking preferences, a roommate who drops into events without invitation, and exercise getting in the way of the marriage.

Her Feet of Clay

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“We all judge people on their looks. Some of us are just more honest about it.” When Andy Bodle puts a woman on a pedestal for her beauty, the results are predictable.