No Elegies for Porn Stars

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Dean Kostos’s newest book, This is Not a Skyscraper, contains many gems. This reflection on a porn watcher’s sense of entitlement to the attention of a neighborhood porn star–“earned by years of yearning”–is one such standout.

Why Men Use Porn (and How to Get Yours to Stop)


Addiction to Pornography is a real thing. But the truth is, it’s not all about sex.

Guyhood Call for Submissions: Dating, Sex, Love, and Intimacy

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Guys, it’s about time we had “the talk.”

7 Challenges of Being Good Men in Committed Relationships

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Steven Lake Explores the Influences That Challenge Men to Remain Faithful

What Hooking Up Means to Your Teenage Son: Notes for Parents

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Andrew Smiler lists 9 things parents need to know when talking to their teens about dating and hooking up.

Pollute the Mind to Clean the Earth


Pornhub vows to plant a tree for every 100 videos watched, but only for those in the “Big Dick” category.

Sex Education, Please

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The worst case scenario of a poor sex education is not an unhealthy sexual identity. It’s the unplanned birth of a child.

14 Things You Must Teach Your Son about Sex

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Andrew Smiler highlights 14 aspects of sexuality that every parent should teach their sons.

Where Has Demonizing Sex Led Us?

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Thaddeus Howze insists that our Puritanical zeal has created a society that is obsessed with sex while still shaming people about it.

1996: Guyhood … the Early Years (Part 1)

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While you chewed your Betty Rubble vitamin, what else happened in 1996?

Who is Belle Knox? Reflections on Duke University’s Porn Star


N.C. Harrison asks outraged critics of Duke University porn star Miriam Weeks to avoid rushing to judgment.

A Compelling Argument For Changing Your Pornography Consumption


Is porn consumption ethical? How about healthy? James Fell examines some evidence, and offers his opinion.

In the Magazine Corner


Male lust and male shame often go hand-in-hand. Here they are together, in Bill Moser’s concrete little piece about “that guy” we’ve all seen or at least heard about.

CrossFit’s Problem With Women, and Ours


So why has CrossFit been posting all of these photos of women in compromising situations?

Farts Embarrass Me (and Other Non-Manly Confessions)

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James Stafford puts his man card on the line and confesses the not so horrible truth of James-ness.

The Science Behind the Theory of Pornography Addiction

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Nate Bagley, host of “The Loveumentary”, explores whether or not pornography is addictive and how to maintain healthy sexual relationships.