What to Do When Your Daughter Wants to Do Porn

A dad’s 19-year-old daughter wants to be a porn star. Does he honor her choice or intervene?

Can We Talk Honestly About Pornography?

Daniel Dowling wants to have the porn conversation you don’t want to have.

Viewing Vintage Porn

By turns wistful, by turns puckish, David Bergman’s tribute to gay adult film of yesteryear is a fun twist on the language of nostalgia.

Why I’m Pro-Sex Work and Anti-Porn

Instead of shaming porn actors and sex workers, Matthew Facciani says we should have open conversations about sexuality and sexual education.

Porn: The Key to All our Faults in Sex?

It isn’t about porn being morally wrong, it’s a question of what it might do to our self identity and sensibilities.

Healthy Relationship Habits Guys Can Practice for Lasting Love

Daniel Dowling wants your relationship to be everything you want it to be. And he’s got some advice to help you make that happen.

Sacred Archetypes of Modern Masculinity: The Divine Child

The Divine Child rejects the cold, stiff version of masculinity that leaves no room for play, emotion, or innocence.

10 Intimacy Breaking Behaviors That Will Make Your Life Hell

Why do men and women dive into relationship, then do everything to avoid intimacy?

Your Brain on Pornography

Why are more and more guys quitting the habit?

Courage to Quit: How I’m Outgrowing Pornography and Waking Up to My True Self

Dan Mahle on why he’s closing this chapter in his life.

For Mindful Men: No, Sex Won’t Heal Your Broken Heart

How do you heal a broken heart? Most of us have experienced this pain, but there are some important no-no’s (and mindful suggestions) to keep in mind.

No Elegies for Porn Stars

Dean Kostos’s newest book, This is Not a Skyscraper, contains many gems. This reflection on a porn watcher’s sense of entitlement to the attention of a neighborhood porn star–“earned by years of yearning”–is one such standout.

Why Men Use Porn (and How to Get Yours to Stop)

Addiction to Pornography is a real thing. But the truth is, it’s not all about sex.

Guyhood Call for Submissions: Dating, Sex, Love, and Intimacy

Guys, it’s about time we had “the talk.”

7 Challenges of Being Good Men in Committed Relationships

Steven Lake Explores the Influences That Challenge Men to Remain Faithful

What Hooking Up Means to Your Teenage Son: Notes for Parents

Andrew Smiler lists 9 things parents need to know when talking to their teens about dating and hooking up.