The Perils of Praise

What happens when people who are used to getting praised stop getting it? Andrew Miller explains.

A Dad Discovers How to Encourage His Child’s Failures

Mathew Lajoie knows how to cheer on his kids when they succeed. What happened when he observed another child fail made him realize what needs to be done when kids DON’T succeed. Here is his story.

What 100 People Said Their Ideal Love Life Looks Like

Jordan Gray interviewed fifty men and fifty women about what their ideal love lives would look like. Here’s what they had to say. —– I recently asked 50 men and 50 women a simple question regarding their ideal love lives. I asked them to each complete a single “sentence stem” five times. That sentence stem […]

No, Praise Won’t Make Your Kid A Narcissist, But This Just Might!

Parents, you have the idea of “praise” ALL wrong. Here’s why …

Why We Suck at Praise

We say the words, but do we really understand the meaning?

Read This When You Feel Unlovable

Jordan Gray wants you to know that you are loved… even if you don’t feel loveable.  —– Wow! I had no idea I was going to be running into you today… But now that I have, I think that you should know something. The timing of this really is insane… Anyways… I’ve been thinking a […]

How To Get Your Partner To Be More Adventurous In Bed

Jordan Gray says that there are three baby steps you can take to encourage your partner to be more adventurous in bed. —– This question has been asked of me nearly ten times in the past week, so I’m taking it as a sign. “My partner is excruciatingly vanilla in the bedroom… how do I […]

Who Do You Think Of When Your Flight Hits Heavy Turbulence?

Last week, Jordan Gray thought he was going to die in a plane crash. This is what went through his mind.

3 Ways To Open Your Woman Sexually

Jordan Gray says that in order to open your woman sexually, you must first open her emotionally.

6 Kinds Of Compliments Men Would Love To Hear More Often

Jordan Gray says that, for men, not all compliments are created equally. Start with these six styles.

How Slut-Shaming Hurts Men

Jordan Gray says that slut-shaming is too engrained in society to go away overnight, but you can do your part to not feed into it.

7 Things Men Want In A Relationship

Jordan Gray says that there are seven simple things that basically all men crave in an intimate relationship.

In Praise of Praise

Sometimes, the best thing you can do for a relationship is take the time to tell someone how much you appreciate them.


Cecil Murphey speaks to the effects of abuse where one is groomed to believe that self-worth is determined by the praise of others.

A Simple Secret Weapon

Human beings like to feel appreciated—you wouldn’t think businesses would have to be persuaded of that fact.

17 Things You Can Learn From Traveling

Humans are friendly and honest the vast majority of the time. Taxi drivers outside airports are the exception.