OPEN THREAD: Discussion of NYTimes Opinion Piece “Is Forced Fatherhood Fair?”

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We would like to talk about men’s reproductive rights.

Is Chicago’s “Pregnant Men” Campaign to Reduce Teen Pregnancy Offensive?

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S.E. Smith investigates the real messages in Chicago’s new teen pregnancy ad.

“When my son was born I felt duty, responsibility and warmth, but I didn’t feel that passionate sense of lifelong love.”

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When did you first bond with your child? Elise said that while that true love for her son eventually came to her, it wasn’t immediate. This can heap shame and guilt onto new parents and leave them feeling even more alone.

Are Fathers As Free to Leave Their Careers As Moms?

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Are men more vulnerable to burn out and career dissatisfaction without a biological imperative to slow down and reassess?

Fatherhood Does Not Have to Wait Until a Child Is Born

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Aaron Brinker read to and talked to his son before birth, creating a bond that benefitted them both.

Why Dads Matter: A Feminist Mom’s Perspective

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Anne Theriault and her husband thought they had their roles all planned out, but parenthood changed those plans.

The Patience to Just Be

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Jim Wilson finds out he has got what his grandson needs most from him.

Forgiving Adultery

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After cheating, a yogi learns that you have to forgive to heal.

Opposites Attract, to a Point

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A longtime bachelor finds love and marriage don’t always arrive as planned.

Old Timers

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In the second installment in his series, Kase Johnstun remembers what it felt like to be old in a young front office.

Opposites Attract, To a Point

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He likes Criterion Collection films; she likes X-Factor.

The Ballad of Betty and Veronica, Part III: Stripped and Totaled

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We were on our last lap, so close to the finish line…

This Is Wonderful News … Right?

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This isn’t about how we feel down the road. This is about that first split second when we realize that everything we know is about to change for good.

How We Say Sex

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Are we portraying good sex with bad imagery?

“Why do you need a ‘Purity Ball’ to talk about sex with your daughters?”

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These are comments by Lance, Kitti, Dawn on the post “Dance With Your Daughter, but Not for Purity”.

The Son I Never Met: Men and Miscarriage

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Ten years later, I still haven’t talked about how much the miscarriage affected me.