10 Things Necessary to Being a Grown Up

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Andy Smithson on 10 basics of being a real adult

How Men Can Deal With The Fear Of The Unknown

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Almost every man worries about what will happen in the future, Stan Popovich provides a list of techniques and suggestions on how to manage this fear of dealing with the unknown.

Within My Control and Beyond

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Josh Magill provides insight into the conundrum of control faced by Masterminds—like him.

Save Your Marriage By Saying Nothing

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Steve Horsmon’s simple solution for saving a marriage: sometimes you have to shut up.

Dealing With My Closet

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Mark Radcliffe believes we all have a closet we avoid dealing with in life. And sometimes, it’s an actual closet.

“Declarations like these are why guys who do have self-esteem issues are told they don’t matter.”

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This is a comment by Danny on the comment of the day: “If a man KNOWS he is physically unattractive we focus other qualities instead of beating up our self-esteem.”

“The men and women who sit by their partners side at the hospital are the special ones.”

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This is a comment by Archy on the post “Can You Ever Really Make a Woman Feel Special?”

“If female culture picks up bad habits from men, it only makes the problem harder to deal with.”

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This is a comment by 1753 on the post “TubeCrush: “Homage to the Hommes” or Unauthorized Exploitation of Men?”

Confessions of a [Former] Addict

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What does it feel like to become an addict?

10 Lessons I Learned From Mentoring

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Mentors learn that you can’t change anyone: not even a troubled youth. But you can listen, and that can change everything.

Six Things Couples Can Do to Make Room for the Emotional Man

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Patricia O’Laughlin, Marriage and Family Therapist, encourages couples to embrace the male’s emotional self.

Some Thoughts and Questions About BDSM PR

TweetIn December while visiting his family for the holidays, Charles and I stopped by the Leather Archives and Museum in Chicago. The LA&M is a small, but scrupulously kept museum nestled in with a bunch of apartment complexes. The museum is identifiable by its sign bearing a gigantic boot, as well the resemblance of the […]

“If a man chooses to engage in porn over a relationship, why is that a problem? Porn use has broken relationships, but no one is owed a relationship.”

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This is a comment by John Anderson on the post “The Single Biggest Obstacle Facing Boys and Men Today”.

Reading For All Mankind: Stop Arguing, Start Listening

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A new book about knowledge in the Internet age reveals an important lesson about being a good man.

When Children Are Different

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A chance encounter on a bike ride at a park leaves Wolf Pascoe and his son struggling with the limits of compassion.