Does Sex Increase Your Self-Esteem?

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Mark Manson observes the ways in which guys become more confident when they have more sex… but it’s far from a simple solution. In fact, it can become an unhealthy cycle.

Fact or Fiction: Do Guys Want Lots of Sexual Partners?


Andrew Smiler reviews the numbers and concludes that the idea guys want lots of different partners is fiction.

Condom Conundrums: Screwing Around Without Protection

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Andrew Smiler explores why the most promiscuous guys are the least likely to use condoms.

A Chronic Cheater


An unfaithful man ends up alone, taking a fearless personal inventory, and vows to change.

Challenging Casanova: Beyond the Stereotype of the Promiscuous Young Male [Excerpt]


Andrew Smiler, with some very unconventional wisdom about young men and sexuality.

Indecisive, Slutty, and Closeted: Bisexual Men in 3 Stereotypes


Tobias is everything you expect bi men to be, and then some.

Masculine Sexuality: What Gets Overlooked


Dr. Ley argues that the oft-blamed trope of “sex addiction” isn’t real.

Why Do We Fear Being Seen as Too Promiscuous?

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Megan Rosker wonders: Is it possible that deep down we believe a promiscuous person is going to cheat on us?

What’s Your Number? Here’s Why I Don’t Care


Does it really matter how many people you’ve slept with? Emily Heist Moss doesn’t think so.

I Used to Stand in Dark Hallways and Say “Kiss Me”

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Lisa Hickey wants to have a conversation about rape. But until today, she didn’t know where to start.

The Results are In: You Can’t Measure Promiscuity

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My single favorite fill-in response to the question “does identifying someone as promiscuous disqualify them as a potential sexual partner?” was: Is he holding a guitar?

Good Men—and Women—Weigh in on Promiscuity

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The results are in: a qualitative analysis of the exclusive GMP survey on promiscuity.

Are Highly Sexual Individuals by Definition Promiscuous?


(Re)Defining Promiscuity: An Exclusive GMP Survey

Are Women Who Have Had Five or More Partners Promiscuous?

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How many partners must a woman have had for men to consider her promiscuous?

Why Men Should Join SlutWalk

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Los Angeles SlutWalk steering committee member and GMPM columnist Hugo Schwyzer argues that SlutWalk is for men, too.

Do Gay Men Fear Intimacy?

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Does “sexual minority stress” cause gay men to fear emotional commitment and pursue open relationships?