While I Was Traveling You Were Busy Scoring Goals

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It took a long time for Christian R. Ward to realize that working and traveling in order to provide for them meant that he missed out on the everyday rhythm of his daughters’ lives.

“Men are going to have to break through the old gender roles and do more child care and people overall are going to have to learn to deal with it.”

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This comment by Danny on the post The Incredibly Low Bar: Let’s Change the Stereotypes about Dad’s

What Are You Doing To A Man When You Call Him A Good Provider?

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Mark Greene believes that when you call a man a provider, he is at risk for leaving the intimate daily emotional life of the family.

American Men Can’t Win the “War on Poverty”

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We need to progress from the language of “war, conquering and oppression” to a language of “respect, engagement and interdependence.”

Measure of Man 2013 and Beyond

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The role of man and the nature of “manhood” is changing. And it should be defined and determined for men by men, as women so successfully did for women.

Future Anxieties and First World Problems

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Pat Brothwell worries about a future where he is able to provide a woman with the kind of lifestyle he’d expect himself to provide, even though he’s currently single with no prospects.

The 6 Weights of Manhood

Dr Vibe and the six weights of manhood

What does it mean to be a man in this day and age? Let us know if these 6 tenets resonate with you — and add your own.

Call for Submissions: The Economy and Me

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A call for submissions about the ways that the economy is affecting you personally.

The Value of a Man

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Veronica Grace can’t understand how the man she loves only sees his value in terms of a traditional, successful job.

Ovulation Leads Women to Think Sexy Men Will Make Good Fathers

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New research reveals ovulation may cause women to think attractive but unreliable men will make good fathers and life partners.

“Traditional gender roles breaking down threatens people’s self-concept and identity.”

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This is a comment by Jonathan G on the post “My Sons’ Easy-Bake Oven Shame”.

Alternatives to Marriage: 12/1

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Do you have to get married?

“Couples need to honor and respect the contributions each partner makes.”

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This is a comment by Lesli Doares on the post “Are Men Lazy?”

“A ‘head of the household’ belongs in a world where wives and children are property.”

This is a comment by Lars Fisher on the post “It Doesn’t Matter Who Wears the Pants: A Response to Hannah Rosin and The New York Times”.

“There is a tendency in our culture for the men who raise children to be devalued.”

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These are comments by Mark Greene and peter on the post “Why Men Can’t Have It All”.

I Thought I’d Try The Swim Part: The Man Camps of North Dakota

Noah wrote about the “man camps” of North Dakota for the Good Men Project, but I decided I would talk about it as well, because it’s interesting. The quote that struck me the most within the NYT article was the following, from an oil fields worker: Even after the recruiter told him the job was […]