After Watertown, Can We Blame the Parents?

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JD Roberto asks: What can the fathers of children lost in other American tragedies—Oklahoma City, Columbine—teach us in their responses to grief?

How to Talk to Your Children About Gay Parents, By a Gay Parent

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Jerry Mahoney offers a list of techniques to teach children about accepting different types of families.

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Norm Appel was terrified to have children while drinking and taking pills. He discovered why.

“Fatherhood in 2013 means what exactly?”

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This is a comment by Tom B on the comment of the day: “There is a loss of fatherhood as a role for men to aspire to, which is troubling.”

The Myth of the Normal Family Unit

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Corina Connell hosts a conversation among her co-parents on the evolving nature of the family unit.

“Loss of money is used as ‘proof’ that a man is not doing his job.”

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This is a comment by Danny on the Comment of the Day: “There is a tendency in our culture for the men who raise children to be devalued.”

There Is No Sterility Parenting

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Every day since Ryan W. Bradley became a father, he has worked at embracing the messiness of life.

“Why should all children be forced to participate in sports? Should all children be forced to play band instruments, take ballet or play chess?”

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This comment was by Bill, on the post “Our Schools Are Failing: Why We Need to Engage Boys Where They Are”

6 Strategies for Co-parenting Before Divorce

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Co-parenting within an intact family requires strategies to support parents’ work-life balance in less gendered ways, says Lisa D’Annolfo Levey.

Video: Pastor Tells Parents to Punch Girlish Sons

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In one minute and 45 seconds Pastor Sean Harris explains why some variations of religion may not be the best influence on the way children should be raised.

Fatherhood Real Talk: Am I Good Enough?

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In the face of tantrums, grown-up relationships, and trying to balance a career with kids, John Taylor wonders if he’s strong enough for his role as primary at-home parent.

Through a Father’s Eyes: Artist Captures His Children’s Lives From Birth To Adolescence in 3 Minutes

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Frans Hofmeester shot footage of his daughter every week of her life, from infancy to 12 years old. It is breathtaking to behold the way a tiny little baby changes to an adolescent right in front of her father’s eyes.

Parenting Advice You Won’t Find in a Book

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Steven Axelrod shares his experiences as a father and the lessons not found in parenting manuals.

Paternal Instinct

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Ken Solin proves that men are capable of great devotion, fidelity, and nurturing.

Shut Mouth: Please, Stop Giving Me Your Parenting Advice

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Loved-ones and strangers wanting to pet your baby comes with the territory, but please curb the undesired parenting advice, Charlie Capen writes.

Man-to-Man with The Ultimate Warrior

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“The truth about me is much more than what you think you know.”