Stop Thinking Like a Perpetrator: 4 Ways to Better Support Survivors of Sexual Violence

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Jamie Utt shows us four important ways to abandon perpetrator logic and stop denying the pain of survivors.

A Gentleman’s Take on Celebrity Overexposure

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Scott Sonnon on the standards of being a man and respecting women.

Why Men Resist Critiques of Masculinity, and How That Can Change

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Alex Bove explains why most men react negatively to the criticism of masculinity.

How Violence Against Women Hurts Men

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Jacob Anderson-Minshall talks about feeling like a predator, an enemy, simply by being a man. This has to change.

Hey #WomenAgainstFeminism and Feminists Against #WomenAgainstFeminism: A few things we can agree on

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Sarah Beaulieu is ready to have a conversation about why there is so much hate against feminism.

The Nuances of Consent and How Some Men Are Trained to Ignore Them

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“When men are unaware of their gender privilege, boundary violations occur,” writes psychologist Sandy Peace.

If the Ads are Wicked, but People Are Buying, Who’s Really to Blame?

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Wicked Camper’s slogans offend a lot of people, but they’re making money so why should they care?

Why #BringBackOurGirls Still Matters

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Hashtags come and go, writes Shaky Shergill, but the deeper problems remain.

Being Married Doesn’t Protect People From Violence

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Russell Love counters the idea that women and children are safe from sexual violence in a married family.

“Rape is a problem of control, not sex…linked to general disrespect & dominance.”

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Jimmy Savile, Rape Culture and the Lessons for Us All

Jimmy Savile, Rape Culture and the Lessons for Us All

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Graham Phoenix finds the term ‘rape culture’ offensive, but in hearing the British Health Secretary, this week, reporting to the British Parliament on the Savile Affair, he questions whether his being offended is valid any more.

Did the St. Louis Post Dispatch Really Have the Right to Dump George Will?

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Business coach, Dixie Gillaspie, takes a searing look at the ramifications of being the only publication to sever ties with columnist George Will.

Male Rape Survivors Are People, Not Talking Points

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James Landrith, on how not to create a hierarchy of suffering.

A Gentlemen’s Guide To Rape Culture

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If you are a man, you are part of rape culture.

Judging Jeopardy – How I Learned to Love an Aggressive Nerd Named Arthur Chu

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How a Jeopardy champ went from being a despised, overly-aggressive nerd, to a White Knight in the #YesAllWomen conversation – Lauren Conaway’s apology to Arthur Chu and good men everywhere.

Hell Yeah, That Was Rape In Game of Thrones’ “Breaker of Chains”

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Alexander Yarde is frustrated with the media encouraging rape culture with dangerous rape scenes that encourage the “but she really wanted it” way of thinking.