Men and Secondary Trauma

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Society has made men the silent sufferers when what they really need is a listening ear.

It’s A Human Problem

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In discussions about sexuality, rape, violence, intimacy Julie Gillis knows one thing for certain: We have to talk about them differently.

GirlWritesWhat on Unwanted Sex vs. Rape

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“How could anyone not realize that a woman who isn’t consenting is not consenting?”

Samantha Bee on Women in the Military, Rick Santorum, and Rape

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Sam Bee is the most dangerous woman in comedy. Check that. The World.

A Reader Responds to Chris Brown Post

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“Tearful begging. Apologies. Right hook to chin. Falling down as blood spilled from my mouth and flooded my chin. Running for my car to lock myself inside.”

Do We Care About A JFK Intern Going Public 50 Years Later?

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My first response was “give me a break.” And then I sat down and thought about it some more.

Disclosures: Finding a Voice for the Boy

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Rob Brown discusses the difficulties and barriers to disclosing his childhood sexual abuse.

Damaged: Tales of Child Abuse and Growing Up

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Robert Brown shares the story of his childhood, being sexually abused by other children, and how it has shaped him as an adult.

Gender and Sexual Violence: Manufacturing Victimhood, Marginalizing Victims

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Typhonblue takes a look at the statistics and finds that the conventional gender narrative of sexual violence doesn’t really hold up.

Did CDC Study Vastly Overstate Sexual Violence?

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The Washington Post writer Christina Hoff Sommers lays out the case.

Yale QB Witt Denies NYT Charges

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Patrick Witt released a statement calling into question the veracity of the NYT story and coverage.

Overcoming Abuse and Becoming a Good Man

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Scott Mclelland relives his agonizing tale of abuse and credits his damaging past as the catalyst for him becoming the good man he is today.

As Victims, Men Struggle for Rape Awareness

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One in 21 said they had been forced to penetrate an acquaintance or a partner, usually a woman.

“Invisible War” rocks Sundance

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Rape in the American armed forces is an issue that has quietly been gathering attention over the past decade. But it exploded with the power of suppressed fury at the screening on Friday afternoon of the documentary “The Invisible War,” a devastating indictment of the government’s inaction on the issue.

Shuffling Feet: A Black Man’s View of Schroedinger’s Rapist

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A response to the argument of Schroedinger’s Rapist and an examination of anti-black racism.

I Don’t Care What You Call It: Sexual Violence Against Men and the Pain of Being Invisible

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The language of abuse doesn’t really matter, Brian C. Rideout writes. Instead, we need to focus on helping and allowing the victims to heal.