The Myth of the F***buddy and Love’s Fast-Forward Button


“We’re just f-buddies, John; it’s casual—you know, friends with benefits.”

Spring Cleaning: Your Heart Requires Maintenance and Care Too

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Days march on without concern for where your heart is, so you must insist that it slows.

Best Birthday Surprise: A Brother Returns Home

Hey Sister, I'll come back from Guatemala

Nicolas makes a surprise come-back from 19 month trip to celebrate his sister’s birthday. Beautiful.

In Defense of Open Relationships


Elliott Gordon wants to debunk the myths our society holds about open relationships.

Male to Male Sexual Feeling


Can guys be sexually attracted to other guys and still call themselves “straight”?

Why Does It Matter How Many Partners She’s Had?

Hugo Woman's Number

Hugo Schwyzer explains why guys are so preoccupied with getting women’s sex stats—and why they should let it go.