Sacred Archetypes for Modern Masculinity: The Destroyer

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Within great destruction, a chance for renewal is possible as long as it is properly fostered.

What I Learned About Adult Rebellion From My 3-Year-Old Daughter

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Learning to defuse his daughter’s tantrums taught Ty Phillips a surprising lesson about himself.

Three Days and Four Choices

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Jason Pockrandt tells the story of how he lost his father at 17.

An Attempt at Teen Rebellion


What better way to be a teenage rebel than smoking tea?

Tony Stewart, You Mend and We’ll Knit


JJ Vincent tries to convince the still-broken-legged NASCAR driver Tony Stewart that he needs to join the legions of men who knit.

Too Many Fatherless Father’s Days

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Patrick Caneday didn’t know what he was missing, growing up without a father around, until he became a father, himself.

Five Films That Changed the Game

M*A*S*H movie, Little Big Man movie, A Clockwork Orange movie, The Godfather movie, The Graduate movie, The Good Life, The Good Men Project, Steve Jaeger

The Seventies were a decade of smashing taboos in filmmaking: in dialogue, depictions of history, and the image of the leading man.

Raising Teenagers For Dummies (Like Me)

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Tom Matlack thinks about how to best raise his kids all day long, even now that they’ve grown into teens. Here are some of his insights.

Growing Up Angry No More: Raising Emotionally Intelligent Boys


Boys don’t just “mellow out,” they learn to repress anger and fear. How to give your sons the freedom to feel and express the full range of emotions.

Muslim Mosh Pit


Young American men have sanctioned outlets for rage and rebellion their counterparts in conservative Islam do not.

Mutiny at the Workplace! Start With the IT Department


Help by Leo—a free interactive tool that connects users to software professionals—is the corporate IT of the future.

Life Advice: A Letter to My Younger Self

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This year I turned 40, and along with the realization that I’m now middle-aged (ack!) came some meditations on the life lessons I’ve learned so far.