When is Enough, Enough?

Enough is Enough

How do you face the reality in what was to be forever, ending?

How I Turned My Love Life Around in 1 Easy Step

How I turned my love life round  Alan Cleaver:Flickr

As a single man my love life is AWESOME! How about yours?

How to Tell the Difference Between a Boundary and a Threat

How to Tell the Difference by Richard Thomas

Sometimes it’s hard to know if someone is drawing a boundary or making a threat. Thomas Fiffer offers a framework to help make the distinction.

How My Partner And I Do Vacations, And How Vacations Do Us

There is more than rest to be had on a vacation

Vacations can be a Crisis or an Opportunity to Re-connect, Re-charge, and Re-establish why you are in the Relationship.

20 Red Flags To Watch Out For In Relationships

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Jordan Gray says that you can save a lot of time, energy, and heartache by watching out for these common pitfalls.

Listen Up Guys! What Women Tell Me Is the #1 Threat To Your Relationship.

I give my trust to you.

Affairs, lying, lack of intimacy, and weak communication all destroy the cornerstone of a relationship – trust!

The Shock of Breaking Up

The Shock of Breaking Up by timlewisnm

Thomas Fiffer examines the earthquake that strikes when a relationship breaks apart, and the subtle, subterranean shifts that precede it.

The Canoe Ride

Water

Looking both inward and outward, Kenny Fries reminds us of how beauty “elevates our lives beyond mere description.”

What Is Your RHQ (Relationship Health Quotient)?

Don't Look Away!

Don’t be caught by surprise when your partner reveals a different understanding of the relationship. Be prepared and take the RHQ!

Fall Equinox

Moon

Using the challenging yet intensely musical ghazal form, Scott Wiggerman takes us inside the mind of a man questioning his relationship.

Five Habits of Highly Successful Lovers

Love Sign

Great sex is not about size, stamina, or technique

You Don’t Need a Spreadsheet to Sum Up Rejection

You Don't Need a Spreadsheet by Renato Ganoza

No matter how you categorize it, rejection hurts and it’s deeply personal. But it can be handled with grace and aplomb.

Is Your Relationship Evolving, Or Being Set-up For A Revolution?

Good, Better, Best

“The need for change bulldozed a road down the center of my mind.” Maya Angelou

I Fell In Love With A Junkie

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“He held my face to his and told me: ‘I have a history of heroin use, but I’m clean, and I’ve been tested. Are you sure you want to do this?’”

“I Need My Space”: Why Environment Matters When Creating

creation, artistry, creative space

The environment I am a part of is draining me. I find that the amount of productivity I experience in a shared, community creation space is much more powerful than any times I try to work from home.

Are We Doing Love Wrong?

Are We Getting Love Wrong by Public Domain

Thomas Fiffer takes the hammer to three myths about love that prevent us from entering and enjoying meaningful relationships.