Five Habits of Highly Successful Lovers

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Great sex is not about size, stamina, or technique

You Don’t Need a Spreadsheet to Sum Up Rejection

You Don't Need a Spreadsheet by Renato Ganoza

No matter how you categorize it, rejection hurts and it’s deeply personal. But it can be handled with grace and aplomb.

Is Your Relationship Evolving, Or Being Set-up For A Revolution?

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“The need for change bulldozed a road down the center of my mind.” Maya Angelou

I Fell In Love With A Junkie

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“He held my face to his and told me: ‘I have a history of heroin use, but I’m clean, and I’ve been tested. Are you sure you want to do this?’”

“I Need My Space”: Why Environment Matters When Creating

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The environment I am a part of is draining me. I find that the amount of productivity I experience in a shared, community creation space is much more powerful than any times I try to work from home.

Are We Doing Love Wrong?

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Thomas Fiffer takes the hammer to three myths about love that prevent us from entering and enjoying meaningful relationships.

Dear Men, You Have Been Lied To

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How recognizing you are people first and gender second can save your relationship.

My Relationship Sucks. Could the Problem Be Me?

My Relationship Sucks by Stuart Richards

When there’s trouble at home, we’re quick to avoid blame and point the finger. But what if we’re the problem? These three questions can determine if you might be the primary cause of strife.

How To Be Romantic Without Being Romantic

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It’s not necessary to have trails of rose petals that lead to some fancy Italian wine to be romantic. Jack Barendse shares five ways he feels the romance in his relationship.

Finding a Mentor Matters For Young Men, But Formalizing the Relationship Matters Most

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My experiences taught me not only how powerful mentoring is but how wrong we generally tend to view mentoring in our personal and professional lives.

My Favorite Clients, The Lums

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Sometimes the most intense and passionate relationships occur between a lawyer and his clients. Bob Marrow tells the story of how he met and became friends with the Lums.

7 Ways to Make Your Partner Feel Appreciated: The Obvious and Not so Obvious.

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Steven Lake reminds of us of the ways we can appreciate our partner, even when the world conspires to make us lose sight of what we have.

Am I Losing My Queer Cred?

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Justin Ropella navigates his queer identity now that he’s in an opposite-gender relationship.

Desperate River

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Britt Melewski presents a poem of love, need, and quiet desperation.

How far will she go? Can your wife be your best friend and should she be?

Can We Be Friends

Steven Lake examines the crazy idea that your wife could be your best fiend . . . I mean friend.

When Leaving Seems Impossible …

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For partners stuck in dysfunctional relationships, Thomas Fiffer offers a roadmap for getting out.