The Damaged Wheel and My Broken Heart

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Raymond Jennings’ overwhelming urges to fix his girlfriend’s possessions seemed healthy at first. But there were broken things he couldn’t seem to fix.

Why You Should Stop Trying To Get Women To Date You

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Stop asking the question “how can I get women to date me” and start asking “how can I become the man women want to date?”

3 Questions Every Successful Relationship Needs Answered

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In a forgotten box of old notes, Tor Constantino finds gold: The 3 questions each of us need answered in every relationship we have.

My Wife Told Me She Wants to Cheat: Here’s How I Feel

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When Elloa Atkinson confessed to the internet that she wanted to cheat on her husband, the internet went crazy. Here is her husband Nige’s side of the story.

Men Are From Mars? What John Gray Got Wrong About Women

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Jordan Gray has a bone to pick with his (non-related) colleague John Gray. Is the vulnerability shaming really necessary?

Update: What Do You Do When Your Wife Tells You She Is Not In Love With You?

The Richness of Love Over Time

How one man navigated the upset of “I’m not in love with you” to creating a new relationship.

I Used to Be a Pick-Up Artist, Then My Whole Life Changed

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Jordan Harbinger shares his journey from starting a pickup school called the Art of Charm – which quickly became the biggest school for men on the web after they discovered the value of authenticity and self-development.

The Most Important Thing About Getting Into A Relationship

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Jordan Gray says that there is one simple question you should ask yourself when you are starting to date someone new.

Love Is Not Enough

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Mark Manson says that while love is beautiful and necessary, it is not something worth sacrificing yourself for.

The Problem With “They Should Just Know”

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Jordan Gray says that people aren’t mind readers, and we shouldn’t expect them to be.

3 Reasons Making Sex Conditional Will Ruin Your Relationship

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Thomas Fiffer explains that making sex a reward for a man’s good behavior not only cheapens the experience but also devalues the relationship.

4 Relationship Rules To Live By

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Jordan Gray says that all of our relationships (intimate or otherwise) are so much simpler than we once thought.

Strong Boundaries Are Critical For Healthy Relationships. Can You Stand Up For Yourself?

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Setting Boundaries is not a luxury, it is a necessity. Steven Lake explores how intimate relationships are strengthened by knowing where you end and the other begins.

Why I’m Grateful for Pain and Guilt

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Tor Constantino explains why he thinks pain and guilt are similar to a smoke detector – and how they can help.

7 Reasons Why Fighting Is Good For Your Relationship

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How can fighting be good for anything? Steven Lake explores how this works in relationship.

6 Healthy Relationship Habits Most People Think Are Toxic

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Mark Manson says that couples do occasionally need to be willing to hurt each others feelings.