How Commitment Makes You Completely Free

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Jordan Gray says that putting down roots doesn’t chain you down, it grounds you. —– For the past six years I couldn’t have been more of a commitment-phobe. I engaged in relationships with an obviously limited future. I hopped around from city to city and have never once had a year lease anywhere. But now, […]

Can You Act Silly And Still Be A Man

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Silly is for kids and comedians. Steven Lake explores the forces that make silly and manly mutually exclusive.

Why Single Dads Turn Me On

Why Single Dads Turn Me On

Susan Rosenzweig lists the qualities that can make single dads so attractive to single women.

When Everything is Labeled Broken, Do Broken People Ensue?

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I gave up hope years ago. And that’s not necessarily a bad thing.

A Winning Play from the NFL

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The NFL addresses domestic violence and abuse incidents involving their players.

Commitments that Compete

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Aaron W. Voyles continues to explore the gap between our commitments and our action. — For several weeks, I’ve been discussing commitment and responsibility. I do so because of their connection to my work with college men. There has been a lot of talk within higher education and the media about gender-based violence, as well […]

Broken Lantern Blues

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Aaron W. Voyles looks at responsibility from the perspective of boyhood bystanders.

Speaking with the Language of Responsibility

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Aaron W. Voyles explores how we take responsibility for our commitments.

5 Reasons to Think With Your Big Head Instead of the Little One

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So, what are we talking about here? We’re talking about making the right decisions.

Man in Van

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Documentary film maker Sean Dunne chats with Jimmy Tarangelo about why he lives in a van.

Do We Just Complain About College Men?

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Aaron W. Voyles investigates the use of complaints versus commitments in talking about issues with college men.

I Love You, Man: 5 Tips For Stepping Into Modern Masculinity

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Dan Mahle grew up not being able to say “I love you” because he thought the words were too emotional. Thankfully, times have changed.

Addiction and Recovery are a Crap Shoot

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One alcoholic can rise above addiction while his friend continues to stumble through recovery.

I Am Proud Of My Masculinity

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Graham Phoenix has felt a need to take control over what he does in life and he has had many reasons to question this over the years. He now realizes that this is an essential aspect of his masculinity, an important part of being a man.

7 Ways to Be A Man That Matters

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Himay Zepeda on essential elements to being a man

“Women seeking married men for noncommittal sex. OK?”

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Top 4 Reasons Why Some Single Women Go After Married Men