Commitments that Compete

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Aaron W. Voyles continues to explore the gap between our commitments and our action. — For several weeks, I’ve been discussing commitment and responsibility. I do so because of their connection to my work with college men. There has been a lot of talk within higher education and the media about gender-based violence, as well […]

Broken Lantern Blues

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Aaron W. Voyles looks at responsibility from the perspective of boyhood bystanders.

Speaking with the Language of Responsibility

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Aaron W. Voyles explores how we take responsibility for our commitments.

5 Reasons to Think With Your Big Head Instead of the Little One

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So, what are we talking about here? We’re talking about making the right decisions.

Man in Van

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Documentary film maker Sean Dunne chats with Jimmy Tarangelo about why he lives in a van.

Do We Just Complain About College Men?

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Aaron W. Voyles investigates the use of complaints versus commitments in talking about issues with college men.

I Love You, Man: 5 Tips For Stepping Into Modern Masculinity

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Dan Mahle grew up not being able to say “I love you” because he thought the words were too emotional. Thankfully, times have changed.

Addiction and Recovery are a Crap Shoot

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One alcoholic can rise above addiction while his friend continues to stumble through recovery.

I Am Proud Of My Masculinity

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Graham Phoenix has felt a need to take control over what he does in life and he has had many reasons to question this over the years. He now realizes that this is an essential aspect of his masculinity, an important part of being a man.

7 Ways to Be A Man That Matters

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Himay Zepeda on essential elements to being a man

“Women seeking married men for noncommittal sex. OK?”

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Top 4 Reasons Why Some Single Women Go After Married Men

DISPOSABLE! “60 boys burned alive worth less than 60 girls kidnapped?”

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Unspoken Assumptions: When Men are the Dead

What is Your Role in Helping a Loved One Recover from Depression?

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Danny Baker outlines what a person can do to help with the depression recovery of a friend or family member.

Five Differences Between a Grown Man and a Mature Man

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On his journey to adulthood, Matthew Branch has sorted through what it takes to be not just grown, but also mature.

How Poop Taught Me To Be a Responsible Husband

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Ben Martin needed the rudest wake up call imaginable to learn to take responsibility for his actions in life and in his marriage.

WhatsApp in the Ukraine–When Masculine Paradigms Collide

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This week Ukraine is in the news demonstrating competing masculine paradigms. The clash of the titans is being played out across the globe.