How America Messed Up Its Kids…And How We Can Fix Them

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Where did we go wrong in raising this generation, and how can we correct these mistakes? Take a look.

What My Father Taught Me About Love

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On the occasion of his Dad’s 70th birthday, Aaron Tang’s four lessons about love that he learned from his father.

The Ten Truths About Becoming a First Time Dad

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As he reflects back on being dad to four kids, Mike Smith, the Sunshine Dad, found ten undeniable truths. He shares them with the men who face fatherhood for the first time in their lives.

How Commitment Makes You Completely Free

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Jordan Gray says that putting down roots doesn’t chain you down, it grounds you.

Can You Act Silly And Still Be A Man

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Silly is for kids and comedians. Steven Lake explores the forces that make silly and manly mutually exclusive.

Why Single Dads Turn Me On

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Susan Rosenzweig lists the qualities that can make single dads so attractive to single women.

When Everything is Labeled Broken, Do Broken People Ensue?

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I gave up hope years ago. And that’s not necessarily a bad thing.

A Winning Play from the NFL

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The NFL addresses domestic violence and abuse incidents involving their players.

Commitments that Compete

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Aaron W. Voyles continues to explore the gap between our commitments and our action. — For several weeks, I’ve been discussing commitment and responsibility. I do so because of their connection to my work with college men. There has been a lot of talk within higher education and the media about gender-based violence, as well […]

Broken Lantern Blues

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Aaron W. Voyles looks at responsibility from the perspective of boyhood bystanders.

Speaking with the Language of Responsibility

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Aaron W. Voyles explores how we take responsibility for our commitments.

5 Reasons to Think With Your Big Head Instead of the Little One

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So, what are we talking about here? We’re talking about making the right decisions.

Man in Van

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Documentary film maker Sean Dunne chats with Jimmy Tarangelo about why he lives in a van.

Do We Just Complain About College Men?

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Aaron W. Voyles investigates the use of complaints versus commitments in talking about issues with college men.

I Love You, Man: 5 Tips For Stepping Into Modern Masculinity

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Dan Mahle grew up not being able to say “I love you” because he thought the words were too emotional. Thankfully, times have changed.

Addiction and Recovery are a Crap Shoot

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One alcoholic can rise above addiction while his friend continues to stumble through recovery.