The Downside of Insecurity


Do you think everything you read applies to you? You might have an insecurity monkey on your back.

Infectious Male to Male Irrationality Transmitted Via Automobile

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When the driver threw the full sports drink bottle at my wife’s car, it’s as if his irrationality drilled through the passenger door and seeped into my brain.

Drive Less, Save Your Soul

Jackson Bliss, Good Men Project, Huffington Post UK, Driving, Driving and Narcissism, Entitled Drivers, Drivers are Assholes, Ethics and Values, Drive Less and Save Your Soul

Jackson Bliss explains why driving, social disconnection and cultural narcissism are all interconnected

“I acted like an ass in front of my kids and put them in danger.”

Road Rage

This comment by Jonny on the post To the Ticket Agent as the Delta Counter

I Have a Right – Thomas Fiffer Gets Angry About Rage and Offers a New Bill of Rights

The Bill of Rights

Martin Luther King had a dream of equality and justice. On a day when we celebrate these freedoms, Thomas Fiffer asserts our right to rage-free relationships.

I Never Thought I’d Be a Road Rage Kind of Guy. And Hope I Never Am Again.

Road rage photo by featheredtar

Pat Brothwell just had his second encounter with road rage. And he sure hopes it’s his last.

“My friend is a recovering road rageaholic.”

Road Rageaholic photo by tonythemisfit

This Comment of the Day is by Steve Horsmon on the post Love and Anger Are Close Cousins

Male Violence and the Old Testament


Violence has been coded, throughout history, as male. Men have been its stereotypical perpetrators and, though we seem to forget this, its most frequent victims.

When Stress Leads to Male Bonding & Compassion

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Dr. Emma Seppala on the new evidence that men are more likely to cooperate in difficult circumstances.

Hyperarousal: Beyond Fight or Flight

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In a crisis, your choices are limited, but it’s not as bad as you think.

Letter to J., Who I Used to Mentor


Michael Copperman finds that the right moment to mentor usually comes on the way to somewhere else.

Face the Rage


How do you powerfully deal with people when they’re acting nuts?