Men Spend Less on Porn Than Women Do

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Although the straight female audience is eight times larger, the gay male porn market is enormous in comparison. What porn are women using?

The Utility of Rape Porn

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Under what circumstances is it acceptable to simulate non-consensual or violent sex?

A Brief History of Porn

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Erotic art has existed throughout human history. (Even before the internet.)

The Everyday Sexiness of Men

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Two romance authors who blog about sex discuss what they find hottest in a man—and it’s not what you’re thinking.

How an Outdated View of Masculinity Ignores the Needs of All Men

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Men’s submission to women is the romantic norm, says kink activist Maymay. But it doesn’t have to be ordinary or unfulfilling.

“Even when we fantasize what could be, characters still don’t get to have sex once they’re married.”

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This comment was from That Guy, in response to Joanna Schroeder, on the post “Does Masturbation End When You Move in Together?“ There’s something to the idea that women don’t really have as many messages about being sexy once they’re married and have children. If pop culture is any indication, there are very few women [...]

On Libido, part three

Trigger warning for discussion of rape. In my two previous posts on the subject, I talked a little about the ways that gendered societal ideas about libido fuck with people. Men are expected to be constantly-horny fuckbeasts, and women are expected to not want sex all that much, but trade it for things they do [...]