You Can’t Ignore the List of Traits You Hate for the One You Love

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One of the most important things I had to learn for myself is that it’s ok to admit that a person is wrong for you.

When it Comes to Romance, Cynics are Luckier Than Hopefuls

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Is optimism the right call for love? Alexia DeFata checks out the details.

Outlander – Romance Fiction and Why We Fantasize About Infidelity

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Noah Berlatsky explains that illicit passions aren’t less enjoyable because they’re illicit. Quite the contrary.

9 Ways to Know Your Ex is Meant to be Your Ex

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Let’s face it: All breakups are hard.

How the Definition of Romance Changes as You Mature

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Real romance isn’t sold at a flower shop or ordered from an over-priced menu.

6 Experiences in Love From Someone Who’s Never Truly Felt It

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Keith Yeung may be a relationship-virgin, but he’s had his fair share of experiences with love, and he’d like to share some of the observations he’s made and lessons he’s learned throughout the years.

Gay Rights? Yes. Gay Kisses? No.

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Marriage, family leave, these are gaining acceptance. But what about kissing your boyfriend in public?

Learning Love is a Choice Kept Me From Ruining My Relationship

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One idea she’d never entertained showed Hilary Lauren how “real love” works — and kept her from sabotaging another relationship.

Letting You Stay: The Complexities of “After” as a Queer Person with Disabilities

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When you’re used to your date jumping and running, what do you do when he stays?

He Knows Your Soul: 8 Signs He’ll Still Love You After You’ve Grown Old

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We all know it: getting older is unavoidable. But staying beautiful in the eyes of your loved one is never impossible — in fact, Lauren Martin shows us how that’s quite the opposite.

Have You Seen My Goat?

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All we need is one spark of eye contact and in the moment of taking a breath, a relationship can blossom and die.

How to Help Your Wife Feel Sexy Again

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Men, if you feel helpless when your wife isn’t “feeling it,” here are 5 common causes and ways you can help.

Romance Isn’t Dead, It’s Just Lost (Or, How to Be a Man With a Capital M)

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Being romantic, writes Eddy Baller, is being attentive, considerate and passionate. None of which makes you less of a man.

5 Things Super-Happy Couples Do Every Day

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Ty Wenger shares the daily habits that will make you and your partner happier.

25 Ways to Put the Spark Back in Your Relationship

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Alexis Meads has a quick tip sheet that can get you back on track. Tonight.