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Mike O’Shea was a physically powerful and courageous man, but what made him a hero to his lifelong friend, Andrew Cotto, was his capacity for love.

Blizzard Kills Father As He Protects Daughter

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One father’s heartbreaking story of sacrifice and love

The Difference Between Want and Need

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Why should a man clean his toilet rather than play video games?

The Father’s Burden

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What’s Your Story of “Providing?”

“Divorce teaches kids about marriage the hard way more than any TV show ever will.”

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This is a comment by Joan on the comment of the day: “My first year of marriage sucked. People expect what they see on TV and marriage is no exception.”

US Navy SEAL Loses His Life During Rescue Mission

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They are everything society says is masculine, but they are still human.

Death by Confirmation

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In this Catholic rite of passage, becoming a man permanently alters a boy’s relationship to his father.

International Men’s Day 2012

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Helping men and boys live longer, happier, healthier lives.

#49: Aurora

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There were more heroes than villains in that Aurora, Colorado movie theater where twelve were killed.

Hymn to Working-Class New York

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Mark Naison speaks of the ordinary heroes that surround us, and where their ethic of heroism comes from.

“The idea of ‘having it all’ denies the existence of the trade offs the people have to make.”

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This is a comment by Texpat on the post “Why Men Can’t Have It All”.

“When you guilt men for not sacrificing themselves, their survivor’s guilt becomes legitimized.”

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This is a comment by Monkey on the post “Bill Bennett Uses Aurora Shooting To Reinforce Own Bullshit Ideas Of Gender”.

Gay Pride 2012 on The Good Life

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Gay Pride on The Good Life

Marriage, Fatherhood, and Baby Rocketship

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Between a difficult pregnancy, graduate school, and an internship in DC, a husband exhibits what it means to be a true father and partner.

“Despite all the pacifist wishes in the world, war is sometimes a necessary evil. “

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This is a comment by Veteran on the post “What Do Pacifists Do on Memorial Day?”

Mopping Up: Janitor Buys Company

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Jamie Reidy shares a story that should inspire anyone who has ever thought, “I could run this company better than my &$#@! boss.”