After his father was declared an enemy of the state in Uganda, his family fled. Now a successful consultant and men’s group leader, Kenny D’Cruz continues to heal from a life marked by persecution and mental illness.
15 Steps to Making Everyone on Facebook Hate You
February 15, 2013 By 20 Comments
Become the most obnoxious person on Facebook.
Dear John: A Guest Who Brings a Lot of Baggage
February 9, 2013 By 5 Comments
An old secret threatens a marriage, a girlfriend won’t open up about changes in her life, and a father of three suddenly wants a motorcycle.
Hurt People Hurt People: Infidelity and Self-Deception
February 6, 2013 By 4 Comments
‘Hurt people hurt people’ explains, but does not pardon, the damage done by those who cheat on their partners.
“I have had several close non-sexual non-romantic relationships with women. How could you just rule out half the population?”
January 30, 2013 By 7 Comments
We all have different opinions on the “When Harry Met Sally” debate. Have you had platonic relationships with women throughout your life? Are we all destined to be attracted to each other? Or is there true friendship available that we’ve all ignored?
The Best of Dear John from 2012
January 20, 2013 By Leave a Comment
Read the best answers by Dear John about sex, relationships, dating, kids, affairs, and more.
Shame Is Why We Fight
January 6, 2013 By 29 Comments
When a man can’t soothe his woman’s anxieties, he has failed to protect her. And in our culture of masculinity, failed men are expendable.
“This project blows the stereotype of ‘women are the talkers, sharers and emoters’ out of the water.”
January 1, 2013 By Leave a Comment
This comment-of-the-day was by Eileen on “This Much I Know to Be True”
Anonymous Stories: 1/12
December 27, 2012 By 6 Comments
What would you say, if you could say it anonymously?
David Petraeus and Public Morality
November 12, 2012 By 3 Comments
If secrets are a danger, isn’t openness the best defense? Or does the public lust for sex scandals trump everything?
A Letter to Myself: You’ve Made It
October 25, 2012 By 8 Comments
John Freddy Hurtado came from a place of darkness, and writing was his way out.
Helping Guys Understand Relationships without Watching “Chick Flicks”: Advice for Parents
September 29, 2012 By 7 Comments
Parents can help prepare boys for all kinds of relationships by examining those in the sports world.
The Gay Dad Project Letters
August 24, 2012 By 5 Comments
Your dad is gay, too? How Jared, Erin, and Amie found each other and created a project for families like theirs.
Where You Came From
July 31, 2012 By 10 Comments
These things don’t always work, says Mother. Where do you think your sister came from?
“There are no ‘secrets’ to men or to women. What works 100% of the time is clear, open, and honest communication.”
This is a comment by Carlo Alcos on the post “20 Things I’ve Learned About Men from Working at Penthouse”.