Control: The Downfall of the Masculine and the Poison of Civilization

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Lion Goodman and John Jones contend that when men unravel the need for control they will heal themselves, and the world.

5 Reasons to Think With Your Big Head Instead of the Little One

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So, what are we talking about here? We’re talking about making the right decisions.

A Psychologist Broke Into A Cult. Here’s The Weird Thing He Learned About Your Brain

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Your mind is an amazing and powerful tool. Harness it properly and you can live a life of great adventure and accomplishment.

A Month Without Coffee

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Leo Babauta is the baddest man on the planet. He gave up coffee. No, really. He stopped drinking coffee. Here’s how he did the impossible.

The Science of Character: New 8 Min. Film by Tiffany Shlain #CharacterDay

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Finish this sentence: I want to be …

“And just because a person doesn’t exercise self-control doesn’t mean you should be treated less than a human being.”

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This comment by Mfundisi Kitchen on the post Richard Sherman, Thugs, and Black Humanity

The Rape Joke Everyone Tolerates

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Prison rape isn’t funnier than any other kind of rape. And men are not unstoppable rape machines. It’s time we stopped laughing.

25 Life Skills a Father Can Give His Son

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What skills do you wish your father had taught you?

Before We Talk Gun Control, Let’s Talk Self Control

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School counselor Mark Vander Ley sees the issue of gun control as a broader societal issue of individuals taking responsibility for oneself

How to Become a Warrior

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The warrior is sensitive enough to discern truth, and has the courage to stand up for it.

Stop Waiting for Things to Get Better

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Face it: Oprah’s not calling, and not much will change in your life without taking different action.

Is Football Heroic? Jovan Belcher, Violence, and Masculinity

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Is the masculine power the makes football exhilarating, the same destructive force that killed Jovan Belcher and Kasandra Perkins?

“Men should act as if the woman’s consent does not matter—but only if you consent to it.”

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This is a comment by Jonathan G on the post “Me Jane, You Tarzan: The Politics of Sexual Polarity”.

Jim’ll Fux It

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What forces might have made Jimmy Savile a sexual predator and allowed him to get away with it all his life? Ben Belenus on our personal sex gods.

An Open Flame

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Even a good man could burn the house down.

Addicts’ Brains May Be Wired At Birth For Less Self-Control

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A study in Science finds that cocaine addicts have abnormalities in areas of the brain involved in self-control. And these abnormalities appear to predate any drug abuse.