School counselor Mark Vander Ley sees the issue of gun control as a broader societal issue of individuals taking responsibility for oneself
How to Become a Warrior
March 25, 2013 By Leave a Comment
The warrior is sensitive enough to discern truth, and has the courage to stand up for it.
Stop Waiting for Things to Get Better
March 19, 2013 By 4 Comments
Face it: Oprah’s not calling, and not much will change in your life without taking different action.
Is Football Heroic? Jovan Belcher, Violence, and Masculinity
December 9, 2012 By 14 Comments
Is the masculine power the makes football exhilarating, the same destructive force that killed Jovan Belcher and Kasandra Perkins?
Jim’ll Fux It
October 18, 2012 By 6 Comments
What forces might have made Jimmy Savile a sexual predator and allowed him to get away with it all his life? Ben Belenus on our personal sex gods.
Addicts’ Brains May Be Wired At Birth For Less Self-Control
February 7, 2012 By Leave a Comment
A study in Science finds that cocaine addicts have abnormalities in areas of the brain involved in self-control. And these abnormalities appear to predate any drug abuse.
Anger Mismanagement
December 5, 2011 By 2 Comments
Joel Schwartzberg found he had to reconcile with his own childhood anger before being able to help his son.
A Massage That Could Have Ended Happily
October 26, 2011 By 99 Comments
When Marcus Williams got a massage in Vietnam, he was faced with a hard choice—harder than he expected.
Why We Can’t Celebrate Male Sexuality … Yet
July 18, 2011 By 54 Comments
So let’s openly and joyously celebrate the positives of male sexuality. But we first need to liberate all of us from the “myth of male weakness,” a myth which insists that the average man has little or no self-control over his sexual desires.
Study of the Day: Your Kid May Be a Serial Killer …
January 25, 2011 By 1 Comment
And other things marshmallows can tell you about your 3-year-old.
“Men should act as if the woman’s consent does not matter—but only if you consent to it.”
This is a comment by Jonathan G on the post “Me Jane, You Tarzan: The Politics of Sexual Polarity”.