10 Things I Would Like To Tell The 18 Year Old Me

Lessons, big and small, David Soto wishes he could impart on his younger self.

Why I Write: My Selfish and Altruistic Deed

Jonathan Delavan hates writing. It’s true! But he shares his reasons for writing for The Good Men Project despite his aversion to the craft.

How To Cultivate Your Darker Sexual Energy

Jordan Gray went on a journey to discover his fully expressed sexual self and became a better man in the process.

Finding Stillness in a Life in Motion

Louise Thayer reflects on how we move through the difficult process of self-discovery.

3 Surprising Ways Millennials Are Making Marriage Better for You

Getting married isn’t what it used to be. And that’s a good thing, thanks to millennials.

The Impact of Missing Out on Junior High Drama

You’ve heard the saying, “You can’t miss what you never had?” That wasn’t true for Jose, who realized what he had missed as a closeted teen.

Me and My Shadow (Self)

How dipping into your darker side can lead to a greater sense of self-discovery.

Sons of War: The Hidden Story Behind Brotherhood

Two survivors of the war between Iraq and Iran were separated in the chaos by enemy lines, but were reunited more than twenty years later.

The Hidden Power of Art

Jonathan Delavan discusses the reasons why art holds such powerful sway over us and is thus a powerful key to one’s personal growth.

Dueling Identities: A Journey of Purpose

One gay man’s reflective story proves gender is more than just a humanity issue.

7 Reasons You Should Stay Single In Your Twenties

Myke Macapinlac says that the best time to be in a relationship is when you don’t need to be in one. —– If you’re in your twenties and still single, take a moment to answer this question as honestly as you can: “What’s your reason for dating?” Your purpose for being in a relationship gives you […]

A Man’s Reflection After a Year on the Transgender Journey

Poet Lex Beatty shares about his life over the last year. This might be the most profoundly raw piece you will ever read regarding a man’s personal feelings about the journey to himself and his correct gender.

There’s No Such Thing as “Finding Yourself”

Sara Crolick gains new insight on the “myth of self-discovery” inviting serious questions about her goals as an individual, her constant quest to find herself and her role as a mother.

3 Things About Being Alone That Are Worth it

Jaime Zepeda knows there is something to be gained by spending time on your own that can’t be found with others.

What Doesn’t Kill You Makes You Stronger (and Masculine)

We know that the path with no obstacles does not lead anywhere, and it surely will not guide you to becoming the best man you can be.

Have You Had Your ‘Man Up’ Moment?

Victory Unlimited provides guidance in a series of questions for men to discover their self worth and achieve a fuller potential.