In My Office, In the Closet

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Out on the job? There may be more at stake than a paycheck when trying to answer this question.

How to Kill Someone’s Self-Esteem at Work

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Andy Schulkind on viewing a rather humiliating and horrible example of how to treat your employees.

Parenting in the Era of #BlackLivesMatter

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As parents of color, we fear for our children, but we also need to think about ourselves.

Do Men Care About Women’s Wrinkles?

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Those lines around women’s eyes? The men August McLaughlin interviewed said, “Frankly my dear, I don’t give a damn.”

Defying What’s Blackness, What’s Femininity, What’s Masculinity

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One group says, “Act like a man.” One group says, “Femme it up.” Icon does neither.

Can Heartbreak Be Healthy?

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Endings expert Matt Shumate believes multiple breakups are the best thing that ever happened to him.

Why It’s Not About Them…It’s About You

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Triggers. We all have them. What can we do when someone pushes one?

How Floating Shelves Taught Me About Unconditional Love

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It can be hard to believe that we have value for just existing. And then someone reminds us in the simplest way.

8 Guaranteed Ways to Boost Your Confidence

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Gaining confidence is easy with these proven strategies from emotional intelligence expert Dr. Travis Bradberry.

How to Take the Reins When Your Life Is Out of Control

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Louise Thayer takes a ride and takes her power back.

I Identify As a Hot Gay Male, and You Need to Respect My Choice

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He became a Hot Gay Male and remains a Hot Gay Male, no matter what anyone else says. And everyone has an opinion.

Call for Submissions: Back to School – Out in the Halls

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Jr. high, high school, college, trade school, any school can be challenging for gay, bi, trans*, and queer folk. We want to hear your stories and advice.

The Impact of Missing Out on Junior High Drama

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You’ve heard the saying, “You can’t miss what you never had?” That wasn’t true for Jose, who realized what he had missed as a closeted teen.

What Made Him Become the Drunkest Guy in the Room

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Years of bullying made Matt Cain look for a way to be accepted. It took many more years for him to realize what happened.

Poor Body Image and the Bedroom: How Can a Husband Help?

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A man’s wife isn’t OK with him seeing her naked. What can be done to help her feel comfortable and increase their intimacy?

Sacrifice Might Be Overrated—Let’s Get Selfish!

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Couples therapist Quentin Hafner explores the limits of sacrificial relationships.