The Real Difference Between Mediocre and Mindblowing Sex

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“Bad sex is a mechanical exercise involving body parts, forgotten as soon as it’s over. Great sex makes you experience the ordinary in an extraordinary way.”

Why Is Sex Advice for Women Always About Pleasing Men? (NSFW)

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Two spoken word poets take on the tawdry, tired, and often terrible tips for pleasing men found in women’s magazines and ask, “What about me? What about my body? What about my pleasure?”

How To Destroy Your Sexual Ego

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Jordan Gray says that in order to be an amazing lover, you have to be honest about whether you’re performing or focusing on pleasure.

How to Be Unforgettable in Bed

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Want to be an unforgettable lover? Forget about technique and try these three simple secrets.

How To Be Supportive If Your Guy Is Experiencing Sexual Issues

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Sex Therapist Vanessa Martin gives useful and loving advice for dealing with premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction and other issues.

Top 5 Pieces of Advice For Having A Sex Life That Doesn’t Suck

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Ever wondered what a sex therapist REALLY thinks is the best advice? Vanessa Martin shares her inside scoop on initiation, rejection, and innovation.

Best of 2013 – Relationships, Love and Sex

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How to be better in bed, falling in love, heartbreak, passion and building stronger marriages… we’ve covered it all here at The Good Men Project. What were your favorites?

How to Get Everything You Want from Casual Sex (without Hurting People)

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Robin Juliet explains how to have a healthy and honest NSA relationship without guilt or heartbreak

The Virgin’s Guide to Great Sex

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Surprise! A virgin can actually be better prepared for great sex than many of his or her more precocious peers.

How Edging Can Save Your Sex Life

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Cure yourself of premature ejaculation, through practice taking yourself to the edge.

Fat Sex 101

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In our society, it can be very hard for fat people to own their sexuality. Here, Marianne offers a guide for enjoying sex at any size, with any size partner.

5 Sex Myths Debunked

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Katelyn Cohen tackles some of the most widely-held myths about sex.

“It was the scariest thing to admit that I wanted more than a quick romp.”

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21 Step Guide to the Art of Masculine Domination

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Skillful dominance requires confidence and sensitivity. Are you bringing it, every step of the way?

The Myth of One-Size-Fits-All Sex

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Sexual instruction manuals perpetuate the notion that, despite the apparent diversity of ways to have sex, there’s just one right way for men to be lovers.

Want the Best Sex of Your Life? Just Ask!

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Jamie Utt explains how consent is about much more than preventing sexual violence.