I Kept It In My Pants For a Year – On Purpose! – And I’m Happier Than Ever

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I’ve been everywhere sexually. So I’m abstaining until I connect with someone on a deeper level.”

Kafka’s Other Trial: The Letters to Felice

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Jesse Kornbluth reviews Elias Canetti’s book on the life of a deeply divided man.

An Open Letter to My Wife on the Occasion of Forgetting Our Anniversary

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Both Aaron Traister and his wife forgot what day it was.

What A Wise Old Farmer Taught Me About Love

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Jordan Gray took an older farmer out for coffee and asked him his best advice about love and life. —– His tiny spoon clanks down on to the side of his white plate as he fumbles to grasp his cup of coffee. He is in no rush, and it seems that he has never had […]

Straight Christian Dads, It is Time to Come Out of the Closet

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Pastor John Pavlovitz is calling on straight dads to step forward from the shadows and ask the hard questions. It may be time to challenge some of the outdated thinking in our churches.

Why an Honest Man Will Always Give You a Reason for Ending Your Relationship

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It starts with little things, like letting a woman you’ve shared your bed with for months or years know why you no longer want to share your life with her.

6 Times You Need to Show Your Partner How Much You Love Them

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When your partner needs your help, here’s what you should do.

Getting Your Relationships Through the Dull Times

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“Meh” can infiltrate many areas of our lives: self-image, career, home and (certainly) love. Tracee Dunblazier guides us on how to get through dull times.

How To Stop Any Argument In Its Tracks (Yes, Really)

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Jordan Gray says that all arguments can be diffused… you just have to know what to do.

5 Ways to Stay in Love

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When the love is there but the thrill is gone, these five fire starters can help you rapidly rekindle your romance.

The Bachelor, Shirtless Men, And The Dawn Of The Female Gaze

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Are the reality show’s ubiquitous shirtless scenes a strange sign of progress?

Why We Love the Video of Twenty Strangers Kissing

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What was it that gave me goosebumps and a smile from within watching strangers kiss, and then also again as strangers undressed each other?

Being In A Relationship – The Challenge Of Change

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Trying not to fall off the boat called relationship. Steven Lake looks at the challenges and opportunities that change offers.

5 Ways To Be A Better Live-In Partner

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Jordan Gray says that living with your significant other can kill the passion in your relationship… unless you decide to do these five things.

What Networking and Pitching Taught Me About Love and Rejection

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In a relationship, the reality is, the person you may be ready for, may not be ready for you yet.

Wedded Bliss and Vacation Compatibility

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A wedding gift she didn’t expect — a husband whose ideal vacation was a perfect match for her own.