My Casual Sex Experience—First Lessons


She didn’t even walk me out, as she had done every time before. Casual had its appeal, but now it feels a bit too callous.

How I Turned My Love Life Around in 1 Easy Step

How I turned my love life round  Alan Cleaver:Flickr

As a single man my love life is AWESOME! How about yours?

Weird Things Couples Do in Public [video]

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If you are, or have ever been, part of a couple, you’ve probably done at least some of these. You can admit it. It’s okay.

I’m an Otherwise Straight Man (Who Fell in Love with His Best Friend)


It didn’t matter if it didn’t fit my identity. It didn’t matter if it didn’t fit my sexuality. It just mattered if it brought me love.

I Am The Worst Man Ever. I Abandoned My Dog… to Be With a Woman


An essay by Eugenio Volpe about Shame, abandonment, self-doubt, love, fatherhood, the lack of good dogs in LA, and exorcising his demons through ink.

Selfless or Revolving Your Whole Life Around Someone?


At what point does making someone else’s happiness your own become bad for you?

7 Ways The Right Relationship Improves Your Life


Here’s what happens when you find the right relationship.

When Love Hits That First Jam … and You Didn’t See It Coming

When Love Hits by Thomas Angermann

There’s nothing like a long drive for deep thinking, especially about love. Thomas Fiffer shares his ‘highway insights’ on relationship logjams.

15 Ways to Talk About Sex


When Randall Frederick tells people that he writes about sex, the topic conversation shifts to…sex.

Two Things No Newlywed Wants to Hear

Two Things No Newlywed by Ruth Hartnup

Sarafina Bianco believes there are a couple of things you shouldn’t say to newlyweds.

9 Steps to Negotiating Ethical Non-Monogamy


Randall Horton, on how to negotiate an open relationship with your partner.

The Greatest Gift She Ever Gave Me


Paul Cooper’s wife gave him the ability to trust women again. Here’s how.

14 Marital Tips on Our 14th Anniversary


If you are lucky (and you work your ass off) your marriage could last for a very long time. With that thought looming over your head, it’s good to have some guidelines as you attempt to live with the same person for years on end.

How Conflict Can Create Love


All couples experience conflict, says Dr. Bill Cloke, and it can either break connection or be the basis for deeper intimacy.

Understanding the Misunderstood


Stephen Michell explains why festivals like World Pride are important to himself and others in the gay community.

For the Ladies: Why He Won’t Call You


Hint: It has to to with technology.