Sex, Shame and Letting Go of “Should”

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Learning to let go of the toxic shames and developing a positive relationship with shame is an ongoing process.

Why I’m Not Bisexual (Even Though My OKCupid Profile Says So)

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Saul of-Hearts thinks his definition of bisexuality doesn’t really match up with anyone else’s. And that’s more than ok.

Call for Submissions: Gender and Sexuality

Call for Submissions: Gender and Sexuality

JJ Vincent is looking for a few good writers. Do you have a story to tell?

How About We End the War on Sex?

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“Men fare little better. We are viewed as sexual junkies who seek to satisfy our relentless physical appetites at the expense of all who cross our paths. We are not to be trusted.”

How BDSM Helped a Rape Survivor Recover

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Author Jane Devin overcame fear to embrace an unlikely ally

“There’s so much that promotes horrible views about sexuality that both men and women fall victim to it.”

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This is a comment by QuantumInc on the post “On Withholding Sex”.

Men and Pornography: 10/20

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Is porn a good thing?

My Sexorcism

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The Sexless Father writes about reinvigorating his sex life from the inside out. If you free your mind, will your ass really follow?

From Boys to Good Men – Pornography, Fraternities and Feminism

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Josh Bowman wonders if on-campus mentor programs can combat a culture of hyper-sexualized aggressive masculinity, and counter some of the lessons learned from watching porn at young age.

What We Need to Talk About When We Talk About Sex and Feminism

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Lisa Solod wants young women to understand that feminism is about much more than just sex.

The Kinkiest Student Newspaper Article Ever

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Cooper Fleishman hopes that the Harvard Crimson article about BDSM is just a sign of things to come.

Sex-Positives: The New Puritans

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Terre Spencer finds an unexpected comparison for the oppressive sex-positives.

Is Sex Positive Ever Negative?

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Lili Bee interviews Dr. Robert Jensen about what’s at stake when talking about our sexual differences.

What’s Missing From the Discussion About Male Sexuality?

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Rachel Rabbit White started The Man Project to hear about the aspects of male sexuality that don’t get discussed.