The 3 Most Damaging Myths About Dating

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From new relationships to break ups, Jordan Gray says that these three myths about dating and relationships are the most damaging. —– When it comes to relationships, people love to blindly follow black and white rules with zero nuance. Why? Because it feels safer that way. Why tap into your own gut-level intuition when you […]

What 100 People Said Their Ideal Love Life Looks Like

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Jordan Gray interviewed fifty men and fifty women about what their ideal love lives would look like. Here’s what they had to say. —– I recently asked 50 men and 50 women a simple question regarding their ideal love lives. I asked them to each complete a single “sentence stem” five times. That sentence stem […]

How I Met The Woman Of My Dreams Using Facebook

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Jordan Gray met the woman of his dreams using Facebook (and total honesty). Find out how.

How To Figure Out What Your Ideal Sex Life Looks Like

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Jordan Gray says that when we go poking around in our subconscious mind we often find that there are dormant sexual desires that have been ignored for far too long. —– If you’ve been reading my articles for any length of time you’ll likely know that I’m a huge fan of self-reflecting… especially when it […]

How To Get Your Partner To Initiate Sex More Often

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Jordan Gray says that, when it comes to wanting your partner to initiate sex more often, people are often asking the wrong question.

How To Love Your Highly Sensitive Partner

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Jordan Gray says that highly sensitive people need love too… they just need it a little bit differently.

In Praise Of Emotionally Strong Women

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Jordan Gray is grateful for every single tear that has ever been kissed away… or left to dry on someone’s face in the presence of a strong woman. —– Here’s to the emotionally strong women… The women that have done their work. The women that know the value of self-love and self-care. The women that hold […]

Sex, Porn and the Digital Revolution

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Internet technology has changed what we know about our sexual selves. Limpet Girl tells us how search engine data collection reveals us all to be a little bit kinky.

Ladies, Stop Expecting The Worst Of Men

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Jordan Gray says that there are plenty of good men out there. And they’re easily found once you know how to find them.

How To Increase Sexual Desire For Your Partner

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Jordan Gray gives you seven unique ways to boost your libido and keep your relationship red hot.

If A Beautiful Woman Makes You Nervous, That’s A Good Thing

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Sarah Jones says that your nervousness around a woman you’re attracted to actually helps you out for these four reasons. —– If you’re talking to a beautiful woman, the last thing you want her to see is your nervousness, right? Anxiety feels vulnerable, and many men think that showing any anxiety at all makes them […]

How To Write A Love Letter That Will Make Them Cry

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Jordan Gray says we need to bring back the lost art of the love letter. This article shows you how.

There Are No Good Ones Left

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Jordan Gray wants to challenge the idea that all of the good ones are taken… because they aren’t.

Your Relationship As Foreplay (And How You Can Get Better At It)

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Jordan Gray says that every minute of your relationship is foreplay. Here are four tips that will help you have a better relationship (and sex life).

Dating Profile Must-Haves for the Discerning Gentlemen

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Jen Doan says that these six tips will improve your online dating game ten-fold.

The Fatal Flaws of Pick-Up (And a Promising Alternative)

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Sarah Jones says that pick-up, one of the most widespread genres of men’s dating advice, is founded on three false premises, all of which set men up for failure from the beginning. There is a much better way.