Love, Robots and Cybersex Addiction

Cybersex

A laptop, Skype, and teledildonics. The new sexual revolution is already transmitting its way through sensors into your home. But will it devolve the way we connect to each other?

Are Some Men Intimidated by Strong Women?

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Dr. Vibe’s latest podcast asks: Are guys afraid of strong ladies? If so, why?

Are You Dating a Serial Killer? Psychology Today Thinks You Might Be.

Charles Emrich is here to help you come to grips with the Bateman-esque monster Psychology Today thinks you’ve fallen for. Sometimes you have to expose yourself to awful things to remind yourself that they exist, that evil exists. Past the darkness at the end of the streetlights, you can hear it. It’s out there in [...]

The Anti-Sex Equation

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Doctor NerdLove explains the problem with excessive neediness—and what you can do to combat it.

Nice Guys Commit Rape Too

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Alyssa Royse believes that society’s relationship with sexuality is at least partially responsible when good men and women commit rape.

Want the Best Sex of Your Life? Just Ask!

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Jamie Utt explains how consent is about much more than preventing sexual violence.

The “Yes, No, Maybe” Chart – A Tool For Talking About Consent

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Jamie Utt offers a “Yes No Maybe” Chart to help couples talk about their limits—and their fantasies.

Trouble from the Start: A Retrospective

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“Betty was the first woman I dated seriously after my marriage ended, and everything about her screamed trouble from the very start.” Jackie Summers goes to the Dominican Republic and gets more than he bargained for.

Understanding Women

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Doctor NerdLove examines the notion that women are inherently so different from men that understanding them requires some sort of guidebook.

Why Men Don’t Always Want Sex

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Believe it or not, men are not always in the mood. Sex educator Ken Melvoin-Berg helps turn this unfortunate situation into an opportunity for exploration and fun.

Why Do Men and Women Want Different Things?

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Do we choose our partners based on adaptations humans formed a million years ago, or on the realities of modern life?

This Is Why You Fail at Dating

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Doctor NerdLove explains how confirmation bias, fear and negativity are ruining your dating life.

Rough Times With My Hairy Girlfriend

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Eli and Josie offer advice to a guy concerned about his naturalist girlfriend’s body hair.

What Makes a Man Attractive?

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Doctor NerdLove investigates the complaint that only certain types of guys get all the women.

My Girlfriend Blacked Out, Then Dumped Me

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A guy who was dumped after his girlfriend blacked out wants Eli and Josie’s help in figuring out what is going on with her.

Can You Ever Really Make a Woman Feel Special?

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A man asks Eli and Josie for help with his fiancé, who says he never makes her feel special.