Dear John: Is Thirteen Too Young For Sexy Underwear?

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A step-dad’s dilemma, a guy who’s never tried sex toys and thoughts on dating a co-worker. Dear John tackles them all.

Dear Feminist Bloggers, Stop Telling Men How To Enjoy Their Bodies


What is wrong with a guy who wants to use a sex toy? Nothing. And how is projecting some sort of unfair stereotype of him helpful? It’s not.

Love, Robots and Cybersex Addiction


A laptop, Skype, and teledildonics. The new sexual revolution is already transmitting its way through sensors into your home. But will it devolve the way we connect to each other?

The Strength of Submission

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At first, John Edale worried about sharing this private aspect of his life in a blog, but has found that coming out as submissive has unexpected benefits.

Get the Sex You Want

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Doctor NerdLove offers guys a step-by-step guide to creating a more fulfilling sex life.

The Christmas Gifts You Forgot

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Adult toys for the bedroom, brought to you by Adam and Eve

Women and Sex Work


Suburban wife, mother, and sex worker Elle Lynn Stanger talks about the women and men who make and use porn.

Air Canada Forced Me Out!


Before he can ascend “high above the mountains,” Donald D’Haene has to get to his assigned seat.

Humping the Uncanny Valley: The Sexiness Gap in Men’s Sex Toys


Charles Emrich looks at the state of sex toys for men and plumbs some pretty distressing depths.

The Clitoris, Demystified

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A man asks Eli and Josie for instructions on how to handle the world’s most mysterious sex organ.

5 Reasons to Play With Sex Toys


Our correspondents at YourTango talk about the ways couples can enjoy sex toys.

Guestpost #75: Katie Harrington – Ten things I’ve learned from having a vagina

Bio:  I’m a 23 year old Irish girl, I like reading, writing, spicy chicken, the feeling of sand between my toes and the warm fuzzy feeling of a hug. This is her blog: Note: In response to – Ten things I’ve learned from having a penis. If you’re going to ask your middle-aged, male Indian cleaner to […]