The Catch-22 of Being a Self-Proclaimed Male Feminist

No one gets feminism right every time, and no one gets to tell you you aren’t a “real” feminist.

Two Words as Boundaries for Human Sexuality: Consenting Adults

Why do we feel the need to pass judgement on certain types of consensual sex between adults?

Does a ‘Happy Ending’ Make Him a Cheater?

5 ways to understand what is (and is not) considered infidelity in your relationship.

How Should We Treat Our Prostitutes?

It’s the “world’s oldest profession.” Are sex workers just a different kind of entrepreneur?

Can We Talk Honestly About Pornography?

Daniel Dowling wants to share his experience with porn and pose some questions for you

Why I’m Pro-Sex Work and Anti-Porn

Instead of shaming porn actors and sex workers, Matthew Facciani says we should have open conversations about sexuality and sexual education.

For Anti-Sex Work Writers, Sex Sells

Put a picture of sex workers on your article, tell everyone how disgusting it is, and watch the punters click.

I Was Jailed for My Work on HIV in Iran, But the Tide is Turning

The inspirational story of two brothers who worked to combat HIV, and the Iranian government who wanted to quiet them.

Sleeping Together: The Good Life’s Top Ten in March

Readers of The Good Life flock to the truth about sleeping together, and what we really want from women.

Fire in Cholon

An American soldier in Saigon receives an unexpected lesson in courage.

Women Who Pay For Sex: Men, Stereotypes, and the Erotic

More women than you think have paid for male “companionship”. What does this say about stereotypes of how sex and desire work?

I Don’t Deserve to Be Happy

Sex addiction and cheating are signs of deeper issues for Felicity Hodgman.

I Became an Escort

Felicity Hodgman treated affairs like a drug, and men as disposable.

The Grace Hotel

A former wedding planner observes the sex trade in Bangkok, as well as efforts to free women and children from prostitution.

Why We Crave Porn

Although we treat porn as a commodity, it is actually a deeply desired human interaction.

The Utility of Violent Porn

Under what circumstances is it acceptable to simulate non-consensual or violent sex?