Freeing Yourself From Myths About Male Sexuality

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Can women actually make the first move? Jerry Stocking takes a look at 3 sexual myths influencing our sexual relationships.

Dear John: Boyfriend’s Sexy Talk A Total Turnoff

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A guy saying suggestive things in front of her son, a coworker who got mailed pot, and a couple on opposite ends of the political spectrum.

Outdoor Date Ideas For Sunny Summer Love

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Want to get outside but need some date ideas? Check out this list of easy excursions for fun in the sun.

For The Love Of God, Please Stop Saying “Bromance”

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Kate Conway explains how the “bromance” label implies that the deepest emotional connection a straight guy can form with someone else is to date them.

An Open Letter From an “Uncool Kid”

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Anup Samanta Responds to Abercrombie and Fitch CEO Declaring his Target Market “The Cool Kids”

Doppelgänger

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Chris Wiewiora is constantly aware of being compared to ‘the old Chris’—his new girlfriend’s previous boyfriend.

Jump or Step Back: The Vasectomy Files 6

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Jonathan Stack explains, “There is a world of new things to try and new ways of trying them and being open to a more spiritual relationship with my own sexuality, one not driven strictly by biology, is exciting.”

Her Feet of Clay

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“We all judge people on their looks. Some of us are just more honest about it.” When Andy Bodle puts a woman on a pedestal for her beauty, the results are predictable.

Love, Robots and Cybersex Addiction

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A laptop, Skype, and teledildonics. The new sexual revolution is already transmitting its way through sensors into your home. But will it devolve the way we connect to each other?

How We Can Improve Sex Ed for Boys

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Justin Cascio talks to Elizabeth Schroeder, executive director of Answer, about why boys are tuning out in sex ed classes, and what they want to know most (but aren’t telling us).

Making Love All Day Long

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Zach Rosenberg may be a married father of a preschooler, but he and his wife don’t let their sex life suffer. What’s his trick?

“Use porn to learn where the important parts are and to enjoy watching, but not as a guide to normal bedroom conduct.”

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These are comments by Dr. Adam Sheck, Damien, and FQuattrone on the post “5 Unrealistic Sex Moves Men Learn from Watching Porn”.

Foreign Bodies

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“Eddie said partly why he left was her goddamn nerves.” By Sara Lippmann

“Sexual abuse of men happens much more often than anyone seems ready to admit.”

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These are comments by Christopher Anderson, Scott Mauer, and trey1963 on the post “I Am a Survivor, and I Can Finally Talk About It”.

Keep That Wanker Away from Me

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Do women prefer louts? Andy Bodle’s experiment in behaving poorly makes for bad science, but a good story.

If You Ever Did Write Anything About Me, I’d Want it to be About Love

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When a former love puts Conner Habib in the hospital, he is left reeling with questions of abuse, betrayal, and a shattered heart.