5 Reasons to Think With Your Big Head Instead of the Little One

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So, what are we talking about here? We’re talking about making the right decisions.

Netflix and the Demise of True Romance

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Sharing a Netflix movie doesn’t have to be the highlight of your romantic evenings together. Here’s a way to keep the romantic fires burning ever brighter as your relationships matures…

How To Destroy Your Sexual Ego

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Jordan Gray says that in order to be an amazing lover, you have to be honest about whether you’re performing or focusing on pleasure.

Why It’s Immoral, A Sex Crime And A Violation Of Civil Rights To Leak Someone Else’s Nudes

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It takes the lowest and most cowardly person to attack someone else anonymously on the Internet. It’s even worse when it relates to this individual’s private life and sexuality.

Anti-Hook-Up Culture: Why You Don’t Have to Have Sex to Be Sexy

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Millennials are often considered to be a part of the hook up generation. Dana Seaman comments on why this is not the case.

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In a poem that some will find creepy and others will find darkly funny, Ann Clark reminds us that the people we love often hide secrets.

What Affirmative Consent Looks Like

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How to give and accept consent without necessarily verbalizing it.

Teaching Not Just Sex, But Good Sex

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Sex education doesn’t teach us how to have good sex and relationships, rather how to roll the condom onto a banana and how to avoid contracting a sexually transmitted infection.

The Unique Pain Of Loving Someone Who Put You In The Friend Zone

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The “friend zone” can be a painful place, but it’s also often an excuse to demonize and insult women. Nadia Kardan shows us how to move on from the pain and toughen up at the same time.

Letting Go Of Desires

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Leo Babauta on freeing yourself.

5 Reasons Getting Sex Is Overrated

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Understanding the difference between getting sex and experiencing sex promotes consent—and makes all the difference in getting one’s needs met.

Promiscuity Without Entitlement, for Men

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Angelus Morningstar explains how men can enjoy being promiscuous without having to resort to pick-up tactics and other behaviors that can demean their sexual partners.

Being Bisexual Taught Me That Sexual Intolerance is a Bigger Problem Than We Realize

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How do we teach our children to love unconditionally when they are surrounded by a culture of violence, discrimination and hate?

Three Ways to Bring Mindfulness into Sex

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Mindfulness is a way of being, both in the world and in your own skin. Rachael Uris has some ideas for bringing this into your sex life.

Why it’s More Than Okay to be With a Woman Who Makes More Money Than You

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Guys … there’s no reason to be embarrassed. If anything, you should be extra proud. Here’s why.

The Agony Of Realizing That “The One” Is Now Somebody You Used To Know

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You neither can nor should try to avoid the sadness of love. There is always some loss associated with loving a person.