Buckle Up: BDSM, Blackmail and Game Theory

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John Edale explains how to get what you want, by limiting your own options.

The Secret to More Intimacy In Marriage

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Who doesn’t want to create more intimacy in our relationships? Why is this such a difficult thing in marriage?

Stop Comparing Mark Sanford and Anthony Weiner: It’s Just Lazy

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Empty your head of what you know and what you think you know and look at these two vastly different scandals objectively.

The Utility of Rape Porn

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Under what circumstances is it acceptable to simulate non-consensual or violent sex?

Your Sexting Guidebook!

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You may not think you need tips on how to “sext” appropriately, but all potential sextets can probably learn a little something from this guide.

How Not to Send Dick Pics: A Beginner’s Guide

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Oliver Lee Bateman has some helpful advice for people who can’t seem to keep their sexts to themselves.

Tiger, Weiner, and JFK: A Conversation on Promiscuity

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Tom Matlack and Slade Sohmer discuss sex addiction and the should-be ramifications for in-office philanderers.

The 10 at 10

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Indiana is kinky, the mentally ill might be superhuman, and sex selection raises a ton of questions.

Are Women the Real Sexters?

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Do women send most of the sext messages? If so, why?

Outing Mr. Hyde

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If you can’t confront your shadow, it’ll bite you in the ass.

Apple’s Moralistic Text Crusade

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First Apple CEO Steve Jobs told me that if I wanted porn on my mobile, I’d have to buy an Android phone. He even went so far as to say that Apple has a “moral responsibility to keep porn off the iPhone,” as if a producer of vanity electronics has the right to dictate propriety.

The Protector

Don’t trust your kids? There’s an app for that!