‘He Would Tell Me’ – A Message to Parents About Abuse

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David Pittman begs parents to understand the many reasons their kids may not tell them about being abused.

5 Reasons Why Consent Doesn’t Come Naturally

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Consent should be simple, right? Then why is it so confusing?

As Child Abuse Investigations Take Shape, Old Crimes are Transforming British Society

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Allegations of a historic paedophile ring are roiling Westminster—and adding to a wave of change sweeping through Britain’s core institutions.

From the Husband of a Survivor

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Kevin Nielsen shares the story of how he helped his wife heal from her sexual abuse, and offers advice for other secondary victims.

“Rape is a problem of control, not sex…linked to general disrespect & dominance.”

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Jimmy Savile, Rape Culture and the Lessons for Us All

Jimmy Savile, Rape Culture and the Lessons for Us All

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Graham Phoenix finds the term ‘rape culture’ offensive, but in hearing the British Health Secretary, this week, reporting to the British Parliament on the Savile Affair, he questions whether his being offended is valid any more.

Sexual Predators and the Targeting of Single Parents

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Jayneen Sanders looks at sexual assault to children of single parents and ways to think about prevention.

Tantra Punk Turns Fighters Into Lovers

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Ben Lawson, musician and activist, teaches empowerment through sacred sexuality.

A Continual Act of Coming Out

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An etiquette advice columnist who offers guidance about ways to reveal family secrets comes out of his own dark and scary closet in which he lived for fifty years

Sasha Joseph Neulinger Is a Survivor of Child Sexual Abuse: Why Isn’t He Angry?

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We all know anger isn’t conducive to healing from abuse. But how do we stop being angry?

No More: Your Voice Can End the Silence

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1 in 6 men in the United States has had an unwanted or abusive sexual experience in childhood.

Was It Rape or Just ‘A Crappy Situation’?

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In “Yeah Maybe, No” filmmaker Kelly Kend interviews a male rape survivor and explores the dynamics of doubt that cloud our collective understanding of consent.

Just What Is Rep. Tom Reed of NY Ashamed Of?

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A Congressman shares his painful personal experience with his colleagues and says, ‘No more.’

Getting Away With Murder: Child Predators

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David Pittman, and other survivors like him, are frustrated with how sexual predators have been getting away with the murder of the innocence of childhood.

Does our Society Have Different Standards for Male and Female Perpetrators?

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Amy Daves explores how the sexual abuse of boys by adult females is often dismissed if the perpetrator is attractive.

How Men Can Support Women Post Sexual Abuse

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Two years ago his wife was kidnapped, stabbed, shot and sexually assaulted by nine men. Here’s the story, the mistakes he made in trying to help and the lessons he wants to put into the world for other men who may find themselves in a similar situation.