We Were There

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Understanding the path to Vulnerability

Beautiful Disaster: Responding to the 7 Reasons Why We’re Drawn to the Damaged Person

Quentin Lucas discusses attractions to the damaged person, as a damaged person.

Quentin Lucas discusses attractions to the damaged person, as a damaged person.

Is the Man Box Preventing You from Confronting Past Abuse?

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Is your definition of masculinity keeping you from healing past wounds?

The Shame Game: Living in an Abuser’s Shadow

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When men abuse women, the victim’s stories often stay hidden until they’re ready to be told. As Devorah Goldstein shares a story of hope, she spreads a message of healing.

When Abused Women Speak Out, Men Listen

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Not enough male victims come forward about sexual abuse and violence, so we listen to the voices of women for guidance.

Difficult Conversations: Raising Awareness on Campus with 1BlueString

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1 in 6 men have survived childhood sexual abuse. By reaching out to them in college, 1BlueString helps them start recovery early.

How To Help Your Partner Work Past Sexual Abuse

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Jordan Gray says that the resulting emotions left over from sexual abuse can be healed with these three, loving steps.  —– Although this is the first time I’ve written about it publicly, the issue of sexual abuse is one that is very important to me. I have had multiple friends and lovers who have had […]

Late Nights Are for the Broken-Hearted

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Danica Barnett shares a painful story of how abusive partners continue to haunt and assault their victims, as real-life monsters whose memories never fade.

Breaking Free of Silence and Shame

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Dani Bostick breaks free of the silence and shame that surround sexual abuse.

It Happens to Boys

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Creating safe places to talk about childhood sexual abuse

Confronting Stigma and Stereotypes Around the World

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Helping men heal

What’s to Blame for Josh Duggar? Institutionalism, Not Christianity

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The numbers are undeniable – sexual abuse happens everywhere: Among the religious and non-religious alike. Roger Canaff explains.

Carrying the Weight

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Learning to let go to find healing

“I Just Need to Tell Someone”

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Making space for men to talk about sexual abuse

I Take the Hate and I Create

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After an online threat of rape from an unknown man, Ilona Harker – mother, musican, writer and teacher – has vowed to take the power back by launching a campaign to “take the hate and create”

Could YOU Tell A Stranger About Your Last Sexual Encounter?

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Jayneed Sanders on why kids aren’t talking about their abuse.