Damaged: Tales of Child Abuse and Growing Up

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Robert Brown shares the story of his childhood, being sexually abused by other children, and how it has shaped him as an adult.

My Fear of Men Cost Me 9 Things

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Brian C. Rideout won’t lose anything more to fear.

“As the father of two adopted daughters who were abused…I have a lot of anger.”

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This comment is from Andy Schulkind on the post “Does Paterno’s Death Resolve Anything?”

When Trauma Triggers Are Everywhere: The Hidden Impact of the Jerry Sandusky Trial

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It’s up to us, Dan Griffin writes, to decide if anything good will come out of the Penn State scandal.

Rapists, I Have Known

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Lisa Hickey believes that the “presumption of male guilt” is equally damaging to both men and women.

Can Young Girls Really Seduce Older Men?

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No, it’s just another lazy excuse of male weakness, writes Hugo Schwyzer.

How We Stop Being Defensive and Learn To Talk About Difficult Subjects

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Julie Gillis meditates on lessons from Jay Smooth on how we should talk about the things we need to talk about.

Sexual Misconduct: A Pandemic

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The only way to combat a pandemic tolerance of sexual misconduct is asking the tough questions, holding accountability, and being vigilant, Paul Gagne writes.

They Are

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Ryan O’Hanlon’s weekend in State College was a strange trip to the strangest land.

Sandusky-ed?

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Tim Green warns Penn State students against turning Jerry Sandusky into a verb.

Power Is at the Core of Sexual Harassment

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No matter their age or gender, teachers, coaches, and supervisors have a potentially crushing influence over their subordinates.

When the Game Becomes Religion

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Gary Percesepe, a minister, shouldn’t be able to make these connections, but he does.

Yes, Rape Victims Get Erections, Too

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We need to get over the myth that men are invulnerable to sexual victimization at the hands of women says Hugo Schwyzer.

A Place of Hope

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Tom Matlack interviewed David Hirschberg, Amy Corbett, and Nikki Valila, who serve girls with risky behaviors. They also lead a treatment center for teenage girls who have been sexually exploited.

I Used to Stand in Dark Hallways and Say “Kiss Me”

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Lisa Hickey wants to have a conversation about rape. But until today, she didn’t know where to start.

The First One to Come Forward

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Tom Matlack has a conversation with one of the first victims to come forward about sexual abuse in the Catholic Church.