Keep That Wanker Away from Me

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Do women prefer louts? Andy Bodle’s experiment in behaving poorly makes for bad science, but a good story.

Watching Her Walk in Her Sexual Power

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Pamela Madsen imagines a day when women and men can flirt without fear.

Adolescent Humiliation

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Andy Bodle fights and flees the pecking order.

Intriguing: The New Ugly?

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Tracy Moore at Jezebel thinks their readers should learn to embrace “intrigue” over sexual attraction in their potential lovers.

Yoga Pants Nation

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Yoga pants aren’t just for the yoga studio anymore. And if the trend doesn’t die soon, Nathan Graziano may be doomed.

Why Saying “Men Are Slaves to Their Sex Drive” is Insulting to Men

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Just as we must never excuse the misogyny of intimate partner abuse by saying that men are violent by nature, we must be careful never to excuse other forms of sexism by saying that men are slaves to sexual desire.

On Women and Casual Sex – Part II: Flings, One Night Stands and Same Night Lays

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Guys, you’re doing it wrong: some women DO like casual sex.

On Women and Casual Sex – Part I: The Pleasure Theory

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Actually, Good Charlotte, girls DON’T like cars and money—as much as they like boys who know how to “please” them…

Do Women Find Men with Babies More Attractive?

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Scientific study bolsters writer’s claims despite his wife’s doubts

Men Need to Mentor Women Too

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Men in positions of power need to overcome their fears, Hugo Schwyzer writes, and start making themselves available to members of the opposite sex.

I Married a Lesbian

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Hugo Schwyzer tries to discern why even after several failed relationships with lesbians or lesbian types, his heart still flutters around short hair and strong jaws.

Years Apart in the Same Canoe—and Sleeping Bag

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“I wanted to be able to keep up with her, but I simply couldn’t. I tried to pretend that I was ready, willing, and able—but really I was just a scared little boy in a man’s body, a very long way from home.”

Where’s the Sex?

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In a conversation inspired by Charlie Capen, Joanna and Julie ponder the problems and promise of sex after parenthood.

Can You Trust Your Johnson?

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Gary Wilson and Marnia Robinson dispute the common conception that the penis never lies.

Study of the Day: Fertile Women Want Masculine Men

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A new study says the fertile women become more attracted to other men if their partner has a less-masculine “baby face.”