“There’s so much that promotes horrible views about sexuality that both men and women fall victim to it.”

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This is a comment by QuantumInc on the post “On Withholding Sex”.

“Men like strip clubs because they aren’t being told how to behave, or being shamed for their sexuality.”

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This is a comment by KKZ on the post “Lap Dance Anxiety”.

Long Distance Sex

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A boyfriend seeks to reconcile his sexual schedule with his long-distance girlfriend so that they can satisfy one another’s needs.

Memories, Real or Imagined, Haunt Us the Same

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Sometimes all you need in order to move on is to distinguish the real from the intangible.

Wanting Makes Us Human

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Isn’t desire, Julie Gillis wonders, a good thing for all of us?

Can You Trust Your Johnson?

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Gary Wilson and Marnia Robinson dispute the common conception that the penis never lies.

Are You Gay or Something? Why It’s So Much Harder When She Wants It More

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Hugo Schwyzer argues that men who are less horny than their female partners are subject to another, more crippling stereotype: they must be gay or something.

Why We Can’t Celebrate Male Sexuality … Yet

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So let’s openly and joyously celebrate the positives of male sexuality. But we first need to liberate all of us from the “myth of male weakness,” a myth which insists that the average man has little or no self-control over his sexual desires.