How To Get More Men Using Condoms — Put The Pleasure Back Into Sex


Putting pleasure and excitement at the heart of our discussions with young men provides us with a coherent, inclusive and meaningful starting point from which to talk about sex.

Why I’m Pro-Sex Work and Anti-Porn


Instead of shaming porn actors and sex workers, Matthew Facciani says we should have open conversations about sexuality and sexual education.

7 Things You Can Do Right Now To Be Better In Bed

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Jordan Gray says that becoming a better lover is simpler than you’d expect (and it has nothing to do with sexual technique).

How to Talk With Your Sons About Robin Thicke

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Eric Clapp refuses to place the scandal of the VMAs entirely on Miley Cyrus—wasn’t Robin Thicke’s performance just as scandalous?

How Our Metaphors For Sex Shape Our Sexual Experiences (Video)


We use competitive metaphors to talk about sex, like baseball, when we should be using corporative ones, like pizza.

Is Chicago’s “Pregnant Men” Campaign to Reduce Teen Pregnancy Offensive?

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S.E. Smith investigates the real messages in Chicago’s new teen pregnancy ad.

STDs and Men’s Sexual Health: 2/12


The STD Project and The Good Life are sparking a conversation on male sexual health in the 21st century.

New Year’s Resolution: Change ‘The Talk” into the Conversation

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Andrew Smiler impores people to talk more openly and consistently about sex and sexuality with their young children.

“The subtext: men are sex-crazed maniacs and women aren’t supposed to like sex.”


This is a comment by Sarah on the post “The Truth about Porn and Relationships”.

What Sex Education Could Be Like


Does sex ed include information on human interactions beyond ‘here’s where the parts go’?

Is Holding Hands a Gateway Sexual Activity?


Joanna Schroeder wonders how the state of Tennessee hopes to educate young people on how to protect themselves if it’s illegal to mention “gateway sexual activities”.

FBI: Female Body Investigator Quiz


What’s your rank?

“Enthusiastic Consent as a concept is great for both men and women”

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This comment was from Julie Gillis on Lessons From the Seduction Community, Part Three: Explicit and Tacit Sexual Communication