New Sex Research Maps the Explosion of Erotic Kinks Emerging in 21st Century Sexuality

Innovative survey helps people clarify their core sexual themes and avoid erotic mismatches in relationships.

Learning to Communicate Sexual Desire

The quest for sexual fulfillment in a relationship begins by learning to communicate sexual desire. Pleasure Mechanics breaks down the process

What Men Really Want

Men may think what they want is shockingly antisocial, but digging deeper reveals that what men truly want is actually quite ordinary and healthy.

Your Wedding, Your Life

The greatest threat to marital peace is a set of unrealistic expectations, demands which may reach an early climax in the wedding ceremony.

Confessions of a Recovered Porn Addict

To prepare myself for writing today I watched some Internet porn.

Six Tips To Fulfill Your Sexual Fantasies

Want your partner to willingly participate in your fantasies? It’s not as hard as you may think.

Miscellaneous Cool Links

1) Dar Williams’s When I Was A Boy is one of the most powerful anti-gender-roles songs I’ve ever heard– and it includes a bonus criticism of femmephobia: And so I tell the man I’m with about the other life I lived And I say, “Now you’re top gun, I have lost and you have won” […]

How the Mrs. Robinson Sex Fantasy Hurts Teen Boys

The case of Susan and Rachel Brock shows how stereotyping male adolescents as horndogs does a great disservice to abuse victims.