Dear Closeted Gay Christian Teen

Growing up gay in the Christian faith leaves some teens feeling isolated and fearful. Advice from someone who’s been there.

My Journey Into the Spectrum; A Mother’s Visit to a Gay-Straight Alliance Meeting

From supporting her just-out-of-the-closet son, to a group hug with a roomful of self-doubting teens, one mother’s quest to ease the pain of being different.

With Kids Expect the Unexpected: “Mom, Should I Masturbate?”

How do you react when your kids ask the unexpected? Aleasa Word tackles the question of masturbation.

The Dream of an Inclusive Masculinity

Jackson Bliss grew up in a world of fixed and simplistic gender roles. Only recently has he understood how complex masculinity truly is.

Come Out, Come Out Wherever You Are—-Again, and Again, and Again

After years of being asked “Are you gay?”, Billy Flood thinks he has finally come up with the perfect response.

Big Man on Campus

A fragile boy with learning disabilities transitions from home school to college.

Do You Know These 6 Elements That Your Sexuality is Made Of? (Video)

Hank Green explains the differences between sex, gender, romance, orientation and more.

Gay Israeli Culture from an Israeli’s Perspective

American travel writer Sophie Needelman meets an Israeli soldier who shows her the gay State of Israel.

Israel from an American Lesbian Perspective

The first in a two-part series, in which travel writer Sophie Needelman brings her identities as a West Coast American college student to the State of Israel, and begins to unpack.

The Gay Look

Being a gay man has everything to do with being a masculine man.

You’re Never Not What You Are

Young self-identified masters and dominants often have to fight for their identities BDSM spaces. Olivia Davis looks at why that’s wrong. In some ways, BDSM is a subculture of title and tradition. The rigid backbone of many kink organizations is Leather—regimented, highly organized Leather. Dating back to WWII vets desperately seeking military structure in their […]

In Defense of Demisexuality

Obviously, I am obsessed with sex and the politics of sex. I spend large chunks of my day staring at arguments about sex, kink, and gender. Equally immoderate chunks of my night are spent writing about those things. Sometimes, I even have sex. I think it’s serious business. But I have a dark, secret heart […]

“Bisexual men are treated as vectors of disease and ‘in-group traitors’ by heterosexuals and homosexuals.”

This is a comment by Mark on the post “Bisexual Men: 8/4”.

“The ‘bear community’ is where I finally got comfortable just being a big, strong, hairy, burly guy with a beard.”

This is comment by NCH on the post “Bear Pride”

Masculinity Olympics

HeatherN explains how masculinity and heterosexuality have traditionally been assumed to be one and the same in our society, and points to how this is changing.

Searching for a Unified Theory of Orgasm: Part Two

Clarisse Thorne had an orgasm once. Then, she couldn’t have another.