“…orientation is inextricably tied to someone’s sense of self…”


Tweet This comment by OirishM on the post Why I Cant Say “Hate The Sin, Love The Sinner” Anymore A deeper and more interesting exposition of that phrase than I was expecting. Not meant as a criticism of you, by the way – my initial reaction was simply that it is predicated on the incorrect […]

How to Tell Someone’s Sexual Orientation by Appearance Alone

Think you can tell just by looking?

Think you can do it? This handy guide might help you navigate these tricky waters.

Can Social Media Help Young Men Find Their Heart and Their Voice?

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Whether it is being open about sexual orientation or how their day went, Jacob Nordby wonders if social media actually open doors for guys which they would otherwise not have?

Bye-bye Binary

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Dr. Aqualus Gordon believes straight men who find themselves attracted to other men should require no explanation and should definitely not be seen as pathological.

NEW STUDY: For Adopted Children, Parents Relationship With Each Other More Important Than Sexual Orientation

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Another study finds that good parenting is just good parenting, no matter what the sexual orientation of the parents.

Time to Admit It: We’re All Gay


I guess it’s time for me to face the facts. I must be gay. And so are you.

Puerto Rico Anti-Discriminatory Bill Signed

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The new law makes employment discrimination against gender or sexual orientation illegal and extends domestic violence laws to gay couples.

Students Victimized for Perceived Sexual Orientation

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A new study finds that students bullied because they are believed to be gay are much more likely than others to be suicidal and depressed.

LGBTQ Mentoring Program Transforms Life for Chicago Students

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Lincoln Park High School is a pioneer for a new type of LGBTQ club that gives individuals the support they seek.

The Impossibility of the Closet


The “is he or isn’t he?” saga of former NFL All-Pro Kerry Rhodes suggests that keeping silent about one’s sexuality may no longer be an option.

Law That Would Ban ‘Conversion Therapy’ For Minors Blocked by Federal Court

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Conversion therapy is controversial, dangerous, and ineffective. But Christian-rights groups claim banning it violates the right to free speech.

California is First to Protect Gay Minors from Antigay “Therapy”


Annie Scudder of TrèsSugar talks about the measures taken by the golden state for LGBTQ teens.

Assumed Identities: 10/13


What have other people assumed they knew about you?

Guys, Was This Homophobia Week And Nobody Told Me?

TweetBecause seriously, I’ve read a lot of truly distressing anti-gay stories this week. Franciscan University of Steubenville in Ohio classifies gay people with murderers and rapists in its curriculum. A sociological course on “deviant behavior” includes, along with criminal behaviors like murder, rape, and robbery, the existence of homosexuals. Err, homosexuality is not deviant behavior, it […]

Indecisive, Slutty, and Closeted: Bisexual Men in 3 Stereotypes


Tobias is everything you expect bi men to be, and then some.

Bisexual, Pansexual, Born or Made?


A survivor of childhood sexual abuse knows bisexuality is real, but wonders if he was born this way or made.