How To Destroy Your Sexual Ego

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Jordan Gray says that in order to be an amazing lover, you have to be honest about whether you’re performing or focusing on pleasure.

Mating In Captivity: 7 Ways To Bring Eroticism Into Your Relationship

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Everyone wants a happy and secure relationship. Unfortunately, it squelches erotic desire. Steven Lake explores how to transcend this paradox.

7 Things You Can Do Right Now To Be Better In Bed

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Jordan Gray says that becoming a better lover is simpler than you’d expect (and it has nothing to do with sexual technique).

Boundaries And Bunnies: A Prophylactic For Relationship Problems

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Steven Lake examines the need for boundaries in relationships and why they can be difficult to implement.

Half A Dozen Hacks For A Thriving Sex Life

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Jordan Gray says that, with a little bit of intentionality, a thriving sex life is attainable to anyone.

The Gentleman’s Guide To Proactive Sexual Consent

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Jordan Gray says that there is an easy way to be respectful and sexy at the same time. —– Throughout the majority of my sex life, I have been utterly baffled. I’ve been baffled because I have consistently received the feedback from my lovers that I make them feel supremely comfortable very quickly. And after […]

Why She Loves Fifty Shades of Grey: Real-Life Lessons For The Bedroom

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Is Fifty Shades of Grey more about men than women? Charles J Orlando discusses.

There is No Gay or Straight

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Dr. Stephen Petteruti’s take on “gay” or “straight”, and how those labels are putting people in boxes rather than setting them free.

Reclaiming Erotic Zeal in Your Marriage

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Dr. Stephen Petteruti offers solutions to the decrease in sexual passion that happens in most longterm marriages.

Dear John: My Husband’s Knitting Is Out Of Control

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An awkward gift-giver, a guy who accidentally killed his fiance’s pet, and waning attraction between a husband and wife.

An Open Letter to My Son About Sex

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“Your greatest challenge will be to honor the erotic feelings and desires that will come up inside you while also staying fully present and respectful.” Janis Whitlock, in a letter to her son.

Dear John: Daughter’s Nude Photos Not Welcome in Family Album

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A daughter’s photography choices, a friend who wants credit for an idea, and a boyfriend who lied about a pot pipe.

Dear John: Do I Really Want An ‘Escort’ For My 26th Birthday?

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A 26-year-old virgin hiring an escort for his birthday, a boss feeling undermined, and the myth of the perfect male body.

Dear John: Boyfriend’s Sexy Talk A Total Turnoff

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A guy saying suggestive things in front of her son, a coworker who got mailed pot, and a couple on opposite ends of the political spectrum.

“It’s not just porn, kids also see adult material easily through movie trailers, video games, TV channels, etc.”

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Do you think the accessibility of sexual images is causing damage to the sexual health of the upcoming generation? Or do you think that it’s just a natural effect of living in a more liberated society? How did sexual images affect YOUR childhood?

Do You Think Men Are Objectified in Movies?

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Heather N argues that men are sexualized in movies based on what they do. Avern argues that even the perception of power and strength aren’t an indicator of character, and thus don’t make the images any less sexual. Do you agree?