Your Relationship As Foreplay (And How You Can Get Better At It)

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Jordan Gray says that every minute of your relationship is foreplay. Here are four tips that will help you have a better relationship (and sex life).

Slow Way, Way Down for Extraordinary Intimacy

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When it comes to the race for extraordinary intimacy, the tortoise wins every time. Here’s why.

How Not To Get Mad At Your Wife

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It took a near tragic event for Steven Lake to appreciate that his wife would not be around forever, and getting angry at her was no longer possible.

The Problem With The “Largest Study To Date” On Infidelity

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Reportedly, women and men have different views on sexual vs. emotional affairs. Let the dubious evolutionary theorizing begin.

Yowie, “Yaoi”! Male Fetishization In American Comics And Manga

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To read Massive isn’t to discover a hidden truth, but to see a massive, obvious fact, bulging out for the world to see.

The Sexiest Words To Say On A First Date

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Adam Gilad says that verbalizing your sexual intent early on in your relationship is a win-win situation for all involved.

How To Destroy Your Sexual Ego

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Jordan Gray says that in order to be an amazing lover, you have to be honest about whether you’re performing or focusing on pleasure.

Mating In Captivity: 7 Ways To Bring Eroticism Into Your Relationship

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Everyone wants a happy and secure relationship. Unfortunately, it squelches erotic desire. Steven Lake explores how to transcend this paradox.

7 Things You Can Do Right Now To Be Better In Bed

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Jordan Gray says that becoming a better lover is simpler than you’d expect (and it has nothing to do with sexual technique).

Boundaries And Bunnies: A Prophylactic For Relationship Problems

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Steven Lake examines the need for boundaries in relationships and why they can be difficult to implement.

Half A Dozen Hacks For A Thriving Sex Life

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Jordan Gray says that, with a little bit of intentionality, a thriving sex life is attainable to anyone.

The Gentleman’s Guide To Proactive Sexual Consent

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Jordan Gray says that there is an easy way to be respectful and sexy at the same time. —– Throughout the majority of my sex life, I have been utterly baffled. I’ve been baffled because I have consistently received the feedback from my lovers that I make them feel supremely comfortable very quickly. And after […]

Why She Loves Fifty Shades of Grey: Real-Life Lessons For The Bedroom

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Is Fifty Shades of Grey more about men than women? Charles J Orlando discusses.

There is No Gay or Straight

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Dr. Stephen Petteruti’s take on “gay” or “straight”, and how those labels are putting people in boxes rather than setting them free.

Reclaiming Erotic Zeal in Your Marriage

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Dr. Stephen Petteruti offers solutions to the decrease in sexual passion that happens in most longterm marriages.

Dear John: My Husband’s Knitting Is Out Of Control

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An awkward gift-giver, a guy who accidentally killed his fiance’s pet, and waning attraction between a husband and wife.