Boys Gym


Small towns can hide secrets, as they do in Scott Hightower’s poem.

What a BuzzFeed Quiz Taught Me About Privilege


BuzzFeed’s “How Privileged Are You?” quiz exposed to Pauline Gaines the blind spots in her understanding of privilege. She also discovered the ominous limitations of such a test.

Sex Education, Please

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The worst case scenario of a poor sex education is not an unhealthy sexual identity. It’s the unplanned birth of a child.

14 Things You Must Teach Your Son about Sex

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Andrew Smiler highlights 14 aspects of sexuality that every parent should teach their sons.

“Is ‘male gaze’ a biological instinct or a ‘modern’ marketing tool?”

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This comment by Lisa on the post Dealing With My Own Male Gaze

Relationship Anarchy Basics

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Marie Crosswell introduces us to relationship anarchy, a new way of redefining – or undefining – relationships.

Sex at Sixty: Need vs Want

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A committed relationship allows for sexual transformation.

Thinking Beyond the Fear: Dealing with a Sexually Active Daughter

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After a recent story of the shooting death of a boy in Texas, Orin Hahn discusses how important communication between a father and a daughter is.

The Big, Fat Polyamorous Asexual Post

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Polyamorous. Asexual. Marie Crosswell explains how these two things really can work together.

Child’s Play


Edie Weinstein wonders what a world would look like that spoke to and played
with children and not ‘boys’ and ‘girls’.

Help Support Real Sex Education


The internet’s best sex information resource for teenagers needs your help.

The Internet Sex Archive: What Should We Do With Millions of Hours of Amateur Pornography?


Historian Oliver Lee Bateman examines the potential scholarly applications of websites like Xtube and RedTube.

3 Ways to Experience Non-Ordinary Sex with a Woman

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Freya Watson reveals how couples can create a sex life that goes beyond pleasure to something extraordinary.

Are We Designed to be Sexual Omnivores? (Video)

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“It’s time we moved beyond Mars and Venus, because the truth is that men are from Africa and women are from Africa.”

The Power of Men’s Love

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Andrew Smiler argues that men’s love is incredibly powerful and that American culture can’t deal.

Open Love Letter to the Straight Men in My Life

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Together we are teaching each other that it’s not really about straight men or gay men or all the men in between, it’s simply about men being who they are: Honest to God Real Men.