15 Ways to Talk About Sex

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When Randall Frederick tells people that he writes about sex, the topic conversation shifts to…sex.

Rewriting Our Sexual History

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Randall Frederick looks at why individuals, even entire communities, rewrite history to conform with their ideology.

7 Facts About Sex, Love, & Attraction That You Need To Know

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Jordan Gray discovered some pretty interesting things while studying attraction and human sexuality for the past decade.

Why “Born This Way” is a Bad Defense That We Need to Stop Depending on

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“It does not matter whether our activities are informed by an element of choice or biology, only that we exist and that we are happy and fulfilled in our lives,” writes Angelus Morningstar.

7 Things All Women Need In A Relationship

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Jordan Gray believes that all people ultimately crave the same seven things in their intimate relationships.

Life Lessons for a Slut-Shamed Man

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Being Caballero on how Slut Shaming challenges men’s sexual and personal development.

When Men Use Sex For Intimacy

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Are emotions and sex so different forms of expression? Jonathan Cadet discusses.

More Good Sex Please; Or Five Ways to Avoid Bad Sex

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Connected sex is what I’m after and what drives my fulfilling feelings. I get closeness from sex. I get relaxation and bonding from sex.

Quiz: Which Of These Guys Are Gay?

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Justin Hubbell wonders why, when he draws a male character, people automatically assume that guy is straight…

“Rape is a problem of control, not sex…linked to general disrespect & dominance.”

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Jimmy Savile, Rape Culture and the Lessons for Us All

Jimmy Savile, Rape Culture and the Lessons for Us All

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Graham Phoenix finds the term ‘rape culture’ offensive, but in hearing the British Health Secretary, this week, reporting to the British Parliament on the Savile Affair, he questions whether his being offended is valid any more.

“My Dad Says You’re A Fag”

Raymond Miller endured a lot of hate for being gay, but the reason behind the hate was sometimes surprising.

9 Reasons Why It’s Okay To Cheat (Or So You Think)

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Orin Hahn explains the ways in which cheating sometimes feels so right.

What’s Awesome About This Guy In Britney Spears Videos

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Dillan DiGiovanni thinks this guy who replaced himself in Britney Spears videos is really awesome!

The Power of Men’s Love

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Andrew Smiler argues that men’s love is incredibly powerful and that American culture can’t deal.

“Do Only Men have a Biological and Innate Desire for Sex?”

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Maybe Men Cheat Because They Love Their Partner