My Wife Told Me She Wants to Cheat: Here’s How I Feel

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When Elloa Atkinson confessed to the internet that she wanted to cheat on her husband, the internet went crazy. Here is her husband Nige’s side of the story.

Putting Your Past in Perspective

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Our pasts can either empower us, or immobilize us. The choice is yours.

3 Ways to Tell If a Mistake Really Matters

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Some mistakes are game-changers and some aren’t. Thomas Fiffer offers three questions to help understand the difference.

6 Kinds Of Compliments Men Would Love To Hear More Often

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Jordan Gray says that, for men, not all compliments are created equally. Start with these six styles.

Maybe We’re Not Meant to Be Happy

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Thomas Fiffer wonders whether happiness is hard to achieve because we’ve evolved to oppose it.

Releasing Shame and Exploding Male Stoicism

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How to allow yourself room to forgive.

Couples And Parents: Put A Stop To Blame And Shame

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Relationships get better when we overcome the urge to criticize.

Masculinity Is Like My Second Skin. But What Is It Really?

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Through the body we experience the social world, writes James W. Messerschmidt. Raoul Wieland asks what good an extreme self-awareness does for the male identity.

Women—To Move Equality Forward, Please Work With, Not Against Men

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Thomas Fiffer asks for a new, label-free language to resolve the gender equality deadlock.

The Culture of Shame: Men, Love, and Emotional Self-Amputation

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Mark Greene talks about the ways in which shame kills men’s courage for living and loving.

Promiscuity Without Entitlement, for Men

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Angelus Morningstar explains how men can enjoy being promiscuous without having to resort to pick-up tactics and other behaviors that can demean their sexual partners.

Comment of the Day: “Improving the Emotional Health of Our Society”

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“….challenging, inspiring and maturing does not need to involve belittling.”

How America’s Culture of Shame is a Killer for Boys

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Put an end to shaming by doing one beautifully simple thing.

How I Became a Cocaine Addict

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Cocaine temporarily solved a big problem for Brian Cuban. But it created even bigger ones. Now in recovery, he recounts his journey into addiction.

Sex, Shame and Suicide

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At one point in his life, Bob Schwenkler was almost a dead man. Shame had locked him down and imprisoned him. But he did manage to get free.

The Joy of Having One Year Left to Live

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There are some things worse than death and they can be overcome simply by thinking about… death.