Where Men Actually Fail to Commit: the Urgent Need for Self-Care

Jordan Kozey urges men past their demons into the most healthy practice of all: self-care.

How to Feel Comfortable with Her History of Hookups

Advice columnist August McLaughlin helps a guy understand his girlfriend’s past history of casual sex.

How a Man can Hold his Head High When he Flies Coach

Don’t let the walk through business class become a walk of shame.

Speaking Truth to Shame

Men Choosing to Suffer in Silence No Longer

Saving a Marriage from the Shame of Infidelity

Shame is so ugly, it’s the least studied human experience. We don’t want to touch, talk, read, or think about it. John Harrison, a licensed counselor, explains why. — A new couple coming to me for counseling greet me at the door to my office for their Monday 11 a.m. appointment. They enter with a […]

When Sex Education Emphasizes Shame, It Doesn’t Help Youth Who Have Been Sexually Abused

Monica Faulkner on how the sex ed system in America perpetuates an idea of shame associated with sex. Not only is this a harmful lens to view sex, but it also continues a cycle of silence for abuse victims.

“I May Be Out of Practice in the Bedroom…Any Tips?”

When dating, we want to feel confident and comfortable no matter what the location. Allana Pratt returns to help us find our flow in the bedroom again.

Healing Shame and Fear by Working With Your Inner Child

Counselor Carl shows how healing the wounded child can heal the anxious, depressed, unfulfilled man (or woman).

Why I Will Forever Appreciate Men

Kylie Lenton writes on how she REALLY feels about men…

Divorce is not a Failure. Marriage is an Entrepreneurial Endeavor

How much better could all marriages be if we look to divorce as a lesson rather than a source of shame?

The Shame Game: Living in an Abuser’s Shadow

When men abuse women, the victim’s stories often stay hidden until they’re ready to be told. As Devorah Goldstein shares a story of hope, she spreads a message of healing.

How the Word ‘Victim’ Can Make Rape Feel Like It’s Your Fault

Rape ‘survivor’ Dani Bostick claims the label victim, but she doesn’t let it shame or define her.

10 Ways to Create Meaningful Male Relationships

Men often struggle to make and keep friendships with other men. Though it may require some work, the task is not impossible.

Why Tell Anyone if You Were Abused as a Child? Six Reasons

Just in the telling of the abuse, you are honoring the child who still remembers the pain. The confusion. The dread. The fear. And you are connecting with that child within you. Soothing him or her.

The Three Universal Relationship Wounds

Jed Diamond explains how abandonment, shame, and betrayal impact us throughout our lives.

4 Words That Hurt Your Relationship

 Your words have the power to draw your relationship closer together or tear it apart.  — “I need my space.” However many times have you said that? Does this work? Over the years, I’m sure being together has been quite a journey. You’re used to each others idioms and quirks. You know when to back […]