The Heartbreaking Cruelty of Comparing Yourself to Others

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Comparing yourself to others rarely makes you feel good. So why do we do it?

An Open Letter to All Men and Women about Gender Equality

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Is our focus really on gender equality? Or tipping the balance in the direction we desire?

Male Sexuality And How Shame Hurts Everyone

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Arden Leigh thinks we all need to release some of the shame we put on ourselves and on others.

The Culture of Shame: Men, Love, and Emotional Self-Amputation

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Mark Greene talks about the ways in which shame kills men’s courage for living and loving.

How America’s Culture of Shame is a Killer for Boys

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Put an end to shaming by doing one beautifully simple thing.

GMP TV: Three Minutes on Protecting Our Kids From Shame

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Take a few minutes to see how the culture of shame impacts your life.

Shame: Is GMP Part of the Problem?

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This is not a rhetorical question.

3 Good Things About Shame

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Despite popular spirituality and political correctness trends which condemn shaming, Jacob Nordby wonders if we have forsaken a vital guide

The Boy I Was, The Man it Makes Me

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Scott Sonnon has a mission to speak out for all of what he has seen.

Let’s Talk About Men and Shame

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Chris M. Anderson tackles the rather large question of how we as a society go about talking about masculinity without shame.

How About We End the War on Sex?

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“Men fare little better. We are viewed as sexual junkies who seek to satisfy our relentless physical appetites at the expense of all who cross our paths. We are not to be trusted.”

“Traditional gender roles breaking down threatens people’s self-concept and identity.”

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This is a comment by Jonathan G on the post “My Sons’ Easy-Bake Oven Shame”.

I Am a Highly Sensitive Man

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Although being a highly sensitive person is equally common among women and men, being a sensitive man remains misunderstood.

Growing Up Angry No More: Raising Emotionally Intelligent Boys

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Boys don’t just “mellow out,” they learn to repress anger and fear. How to give your sons the freedom to feel and express the full range of emotions.

Ending Homophobia, One Brother at a Time

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The key to ending homophobia might be to open the conversation and create safe spaces.

“Shame is a pervasive evils that suppresses men from fully expressing their feelings.”

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These are comments by tgolden and James Nakamura on the post “The Man Behind the Mask”.